My brother has a girlfriend that he is stone in love with. She's his first real girlfriend and his first sexual experience. The only problem is she's a total skank. I know for a fact she's messing around with other guys. I want to tell my brother to leave her alone because she's a you-know-what, but I don't want him to get mad at me and have a strain on our relationship. Help?
2006-09-06 06:26:44 · 23 answers · asked by Special nobody 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just Talk To Your Brother Tell Him To See How She Acts Around Other Guys Like:
Tell Him To Bring His Guy Friends Over And Invite Only Her And See If She Flirts Or Does Anything Else
Hope this Helps!!
2006-09-06 06:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you owe it to him to tell him, it's all in how you present it. You can't come in confrontationally, or that will definately put him on the defensive right away. If you do know it for a fact, and it's not just your opinion of the girl, then go to him and lay it out there. You know it's his first real experience in this type of relationship, and you don't want him to get hurt (physically or emotionally). he may be pissed at first, but if it's true, the truth will come out and he'll realize you're just trying to help him out. If you don't tell him, and he finds out you've known all along, he may be even more pissed. The truth is often the best way to go, especially when dealing with family.
2006-09-06 06:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by simplyrelaxinginblvl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a good sister. Brothers and sisters are supposed to look out for each other. If she's cheating on him, sit him down, and tell him gently.
He may be angry at you. But, you're his sister and you will always be his sister. One day, he'll be grateful and will really appreciate that you did the difficult thing instead of the easy thing.
Look at this way. If he knew that you're boyfriend was cheating on you, would you want him to tell you? I bet you would.
2006-09-06 06:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so what's the problem then?
Answer: You!
You are the one who have a problem with your brother being with a "total skank". Apparently he doesn't have a problem with it, and neither does she.
You have to grow up, and realize that the world will not always bend to your wishes. You can't expect people to adapt their love-life and/or (sexual) relationships to fit your ideas of what is right or wrong. Grow up, put your nose somewhere it belongs, and take care of your own business.
2006-09-06 06:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yep. Let him learn on his own. It's a part of life to learn from past experiences. You getting in the way will only drag out the whole process.
2006-09-06 06:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say:
I love you Bro
so you should know
your girls a ho
and needs to go!
All your friends
have done both ends
so dump the b*tch
and don't make amends
I tell you this
'cause I'm your sis
so don't be mad
or I'll get sad
Peace. . .
2006-09-06 06:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by zambranoray 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its always hard seeing someone you love go out with someone you dont' like.
Unfortunately, telling them does not make them see this. YOu just have to wait and be there for them when they realise for themselves. Otherwise they become stubborn and go out with them for longer.
He will wise up soon and find a lovely girl.
2006-09-06 06:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by Bebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. He probably won't believe you, but he will find out eventually anyway. He would probably be mad at you if you knew all along and didn't tell him, and he found out from somebody else. Just be honest.
2006-09-06 06:32:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Butt out sister. No good will come from your messing in your brother's relationship. Just be there for him.
2006-09-06 06:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋