Should I try to fix our relationship?

Question

Growing up with my father was very stressful. He was very strict and not always friendly. It was either up or down with me. He convinced my mother who would never speak out to him that I was having sex and other things when I wasn’t and they continued to look at me in this light for years. He refused to help pay for college and tried to kick me out several times before I was 18. Our last disagreement was when I realized was too old to deal with this and I didn’t have to anymore so I stopped talking to him. He told my mother, sister, and brother that they weren’t allowed to talk to me and they listened for awhile and then eventually started talking to me. It’s been 3 years and I half-heartedly attempted to reconcile but I could tell by his tone that he was not interested at all. Because of this, my mother and I barely talk unless I call her. She thinks I should try to fix things with him and my sister and I have an up and down relationship. She was “Daddy’s little girl”. I don’t know w

Answer 1

Dear you've tried your best. I know you love your father but sometimes enough is enough. Give it a while(maybe a few years) and see if he comes around.

Answer 2

there's a reason for everything.. im not saying ur a bad daughter.. and maybe u didnt really have sex and all those things.. but there MUST be a reason, even if its buried deep inside him and u dont know what it it.. try to find out and start from there..
ask urself, has he always been that way to u? what abt when u were a kid? i mean like 6 or something.. in ur pics, does he hold u and love u like a parent should? when did this gap start?
start from there and try to fix THIS issue in particular
best of luck!