If you just met a girl and started dating, and you slept together for the first time and after the first time she doesnt call you anymore but she answers when you call, but you know somethings up becuase shes not showing as much interest as before, so would you automatically think it was your preformance from the other night, would it bother you, or would you just move on.
2006-09-06 06:16:26 · 13 answers · asked by SHE HATE ME 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a tricky one. If you look in real life like your avatar, I hope he'll move on so I can move in.
2006-09-06 06:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most guys would probably just be like, "well, at least I got sex" and not care. However, in regards to guys who might be more into said girl I wouldn't be too worried that the problem was the skills in the bedroom. I've realized that the best sex is after two people have done it a few times and has an understanding of each other's capabilities. The first few times can be a little awkward; if this "girl" won't call back because of one small problem, then its probably not worth dealing with her.
2006-09-06 13:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't bother me much, just because i have a lot of confidence in myself and in my ability, but it could effect someone else that is not as confident. But since you asked me for a personal opinion, no it wouldn't bother me at all, i would just look at it in way that says hey i boned this chick, if she didn't like it oh well I've already been in there anyway and just move on. I know it seems like I am kind of a dog but what chicks don't get is that unless a guy keeps this mentality, all he will ever do is fret over every girl that does not think the world of him, and it is actually a very rare occurrence to find a girl that is like that. So if you decide to continue not calling him, don't be surprised if he turns into the dog that all women eventually make us guys into by playing the games that most of you love to play with weak minded men.... my suggestion would be try taking your time to find a real man with confidence in himself that way you don't have to worry about this kind of stuff, because trust me if he was anything like me it would probably be you calling non stop and me on the other end of my cell phone ignoring you calls because I'm on the other line with my next potential for that night.... oh and by the way, you need to really learn how to present your ideas more clearly, you write like you are in second grade! LMAO!
2006-09-06 13:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would either think it was performance related (she didn't feel any chemistry there), or she was playing games and getting the guy chase her around some (kinda like playing hard-to-get after the fact).
2006-09-06 13:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by Shofix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would bother me but I'll move on with a bitter taste in my mouth.
2006-09-06 13:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by Death By Snoo Snoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
at first, I will think it is somethin i didnt do well,maybe the sex.
But after a while i will take it that the lady was just feelin phony and wanted to b laid and i was just around................ever heard of "one night stand".......i will take it to be that...........and move on.
unless i felt somethin different for her,then i will go all out for her
2006-09-06 13:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by mr cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the presentation of your rambling question resembles your performance in the sack, you already know your "shortcummings"!!!
2006-09-06 13:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by craigbrwr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i move on and mess with 1 of her famliy members
2006-09-06 13:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahhaahha My performance? hahahahaah Girl my tongue didn't get this strong from talkin'...
thanks for the points
2006-09-06 13:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by 57chevy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on at least i got my nut once
2006-09-06 13:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋