live in Florida and my boyfriend lives in North Carolina. We both have busy schedules since he is an athlete and I have a baby on the way; we also bith go to school. I went to visit him this past weekend and found out that he flirts alot with the girls up there. He was hiding it and I only found out because she called his dorm room and I was suspicious as to who she was. Me and him have a two and a half year history with a couple breaks in between but supposedly wants us to get married and have a family together. I understand that we wont see each other for months at a time but does that make it ok assuming it doesnt go any farther than just flirting. Another factor to look at is the fact that I am a nude stripper and its my job to flirt and.... well I dont think I have to go into detail. But let it be known that I only do it cuz the money is good. Should I break up with him? Or should I allow flirtin to destroy the trust I have in him? HELP
2006-09-06 06:12:48 · 3 answers · asked by Monica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My long distance relationship makes your long distance relationship look like you two are next door from each other (I'm in California, she's in Hanoi, Vietnam).
Long distance relationships are extremely hard to maintain. You have to have incredible amount of commitment to each other, or it will easily fall apart. My fiancee' and I could walk away form each other, and find a closer, less difficult, relationship to be in. We don't, because we love each other intensely and cannot think about being with anyone else.
If you and your boyfriend cannot make such a commitment, then one of you will eventually cheat. Not having that regular physical contact or communication will make the third party more attractive and the eventual demise of your relationship.
If you compromise trust and commitment in your relationship, then what do you have left?
2006-09-06 08:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by MojaveDan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that you both should go your separate ways until yu at least liver in the same state. If you guys are having a baby together, then maybe you should do the right thing and be together for the baby. This is grown-up stuff here so perhaps making grown-up decisions is what is needed. If things are allowed to go on as they are, one of you will cheat and there will be no more trust...
2006-09-06 06:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by gdf888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him he has been unfaithfull . You can take care of yourself obviously . He does not care or he would be in florida with you and your unborn child . Do yrslf a favor and dump him .
2006-09-06 06:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋