I'm not a vindictive person, but I want her to realize that she missed a great thing. I'm not into hurting her, I just want her to think about how I loved her completely and unconditionally. I work with her so I have to see her about every day
2006-09-06 06:03:34 · 20 answers · asked by woodersondylan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Smile and live well. Living well is the best revenge. My ex and I had always talked about buying a vintage motor yacht and living aboard it. After she decided that stripping, doing tons of drugs and cheating on me were better than being a really great pre-school teacher who was adored by all,(needless to say-to the curb!) I bought that boat, a beautiful 42 foot 1950 ChrisCraft, moved onto it and named it "The Innigo Montoya"(if you don't know it look it up). That was living well, and of course much better than ending up as an out-of work stripper/prostitute(got fat) living in a run down apartment with 3 children by different men.
Plenty of better, more intelligent, hotter fish in the sea my friend. Live well and smile, life is beautiful.
2006-09-06 06:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by abrainconnected 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never really get satisfaction, though the thought seems nice, because you are angry, but mostly hurt. You need to allow yourself to grieve theloss of the relationship. Take a look at it and how it broke down. Work on being ok with yourself and moving on with your life. Most times, when things like this happen, later in life, when you find love again...you realize you are gald you didn't stay with that person back there, because it is finally a good relationship and you will be happy. She obviously didn't regard you the same as you did her and this would have come out sometime. Better sooner than later.
2006-09-06 13:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get back at her is to carry on with your life with your head held high. If you stoop to games and vindictive actions, it will do the opposite of what you want...it will only back up (in her mind) the reasons why she left. She will eventually see the err of her ways, but by then it will be too late, because you have moved on. Broken hearts are healed by time and respecting yourself...
2006-09-06 13:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by shasta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to be the bigger person. Just go on your day like nothing happened.She'll realize that sooner or later. By trying to get back at her, it will show her that your immature and that she did do the right thing by breaking up with you.
2006-09-06 13:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. If she really liked you, she would be with you. Give it time, if you ignore her and leave her alone, then maybe she might reconsider your relationship. Some people don't know what they have until a) they loose the person or b) they get involved with a jerk. Time will tell. Relax and play it cool. You will make things worse if you push yourself on her or if you get even.
2006-09-06 13:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time you see her just smile and act like nothing is bothering you. Just go on (around her ) like you are just fine. Talk about other possibilities. Maybe she will hear and realize what she has done. A smile does more than you think.
2006-09-06 13:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by cricket 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dog.......let me tell you i was in the same thing but shorty quit and walked out cause she couldn't handle it. I had the whole crew team on my side. She presented herself the wrong way and everybody seen it, and what i did was just went on about mine's and didn't worry about her. Thats what you gotta do. You keep on livin' and it might sink in about what she lost but if not......i guess, but u keep passing through and that girl that feels for u the same way you feel for her will come along. Getting back at her will just start things, don't go that way. and thats real
2006-09-06 13:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by curious George 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get back at someone is to be happy that your not wasting your time with them anymore. Be glad that you don't have to spend another day as her boyfriend.
This will hurt her more then anything.
2006-09-06 13:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, let her find out that she is missing you on her own. The more you try to show her, the more she is going to be glad you're gone. Second, don't do anything. Karma will do that for you.
2006-09-06 13:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you "Get back at her", you will seem desperate. absence makes the heart grow fonder. she has to miss you in order to realize what shes missing.
maybe start dating someone new. nothing like a new girlfriend to piss an old one off.
2006-09-06 13:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋