First I'm not cheating on any of them. None of them are my girlfriends, two of them knew I was seeing other people, and one didn't, she just found out and is kind of pissed, but I told her we're not commited I can still see other girls, but I guess she wants something more serious and won't keep talking to me unless it's exclusive. She's my favorite and if there's any future with any of em it's her. but I'm young and in my prime. What do you think settle down, or stay free?
2006-09-06 06:03:13 · 12 answers · asked by joe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not going to tell you what to do. here's my philsophy tho, the decade of the 20's is the man's time to do whatever he wants. have a good time, make alot of money(no need to settle down) cuz when you get married, "YOUR" life is over and now it's "OUR" life. then when you have kids both "YOUR" and "OUR" lives are over and now it's "THEIR" life. so my suggestion is if you're not really feeling like a relationship is for you, and you're young.... have fun man. live out your 20's. cuz eventhough this one girl seems special, there are SO MANY more special girls out there. but if you're trying to get married(which i don't think you are) drop the other two and be exclusive with the one. g'luck!
2006-09-06 06:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by eyes_realize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Double edge sword. If you let her go, you could regret it but if you let them go, there's no telling if the 2 of would will even last. Then you also have to worry about STD's. If 2 knew you were with other women and didn't care, who's to say they aren't sleeping with other people and those people aren't sleeping around as well. Safe is 1 on 1. Stay safe, get tested and pick you main female. Your in your prime and I'm sure you don't wanna end it there.
2006-09-06 06:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl, I can see where she's coming from, but since you were not exclusive and didn't say you were with her then she really can't be that mad about it. I'm one for technicallities so technically you were free to as you please. But if you want to keep her around, like you say you do, maybe you should give it a shot and settle down...otherwise, she'll walk away and find someone else to settle down with and there goes your chance.
2006-09-06 06:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by gurlshorti36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them all. Any woman who stays with a two timing jerk like you can't be right in the head. The risks of such a lifestyle are too huge to contemplate.
2006-09-06 06:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF she likes you enough to deserve you then she will wait for you to be ready. DO NOT let her pressure you but TELL HER what you said about her being the one you see a possible future with. Girls love that ****! Tell her what you feel about her and ask for her patience. Then go on your feelings and whether or not she is good for you and who you are.
2006-09-06 06:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by JenaMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe this girl is worth it and you could stay committed to her, then you should hurry up and chose her before she starts to think you're a dirtbag. You don't want to miss out on a good thing.
2006-09-06 06:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seriously need to talk to Hu Hef. Its not a problem for him. Lol or just be free and young hows that?
2006-09-06 06:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay free, im a girl but i understand guys you know what i mean jelly bean...
2006-09-06 10:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by PINKY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok . 1 man 1 woman or else mistrust comes
2006-09-06 07:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by gadwin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and lay all three and forget about them
2006-09-06 06:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋