wass the best way to ask a freind of mine if she realli likes me as a lover?

Question

but she shd not get angry over this.......caus after all she is my freind and i don wanna loose her atleast as a fren

Answer 1

she wouldnt know unless shes had you as a "lover", if she hasnt then she cant answer that, if you want to find out if she likes you more than a friend, then take her out on a date and see what happens, or just talk to her, there is a reason communication is key

Answer 2

Ask her questions that will let you feel her out, like: "what would you look for in a lover" or "do you think friends will ruin their friendship if they become lovers" or the like. That way you can see what she thinks about the idea of it and you will have a better idea of whether or not you should ask her to be your lover. If she wants to know why you are asking these questions, tell her you saw some questions about it on Y!A and wanted to know what she thought about it.