DESPITE THE FACT THAT THEY"ARE'nt married. THEY ACTUALLY FORNICATE. They have sex. They TELL YOu IT's LOVE. BUT THAT against GODS will. WHAT KIND OF SOCIETY ARE we LIVING IN ? A SOCIETY OF PERVERTS AND REPROBATE? A society of ungodly and delirious people? People don't even go to church and more. Yet they say they are "christains" what kind of christian breaks GODs precious law? I JUST CAN"T FATHOM THE SOCIETY of today's MINDSET, it's Pratically nauseating. OH it's true. DOEs ANYONE SHARE MY VIEW> PLS NO STUPID COMMENT MOST especially the so called "atheist." Oh it's true.
2006-09-06 05:34:05 · 43 answers · asked by Smooth talking 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
IT'S JUST BEYOND THE REALMS OF SANITY FOR PEOPLE TO GET THAT FACT DOWN. IF FEEL DEEP DISMAYED THAT MANY PEOPLE ARE ON THE VERGE OF DESTRUCTION. "THEY JUST DON'T GET IT"
2006-09-06 06:27:35 · update #1
JUST TO GET THE FACT DOWN I'M A CHRISTIAN. IT'S TRUE.
2006-09-06 06:29:27 · update #2
THIS AIN'T A MATTER OF JUDGING. hellOOOOOOOOO. IT'S IN THE BIBLE. i KNOW TRUE CHRISTIANS WOULD AGREE WITH ME .
2006-09-06 06:32:51 · update #3
I'm talking to everyone who violates GODS LAW.
2006-09-06 07:27:05 · update #4
Societal mindset it truly sickening. I pray people would just stop having sex while they aren't married.
2006-09-11 09:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Agentj100 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well it's a good thing God didn't leave it up to you to be the judge, huh?
What makes you think you know what God will accept as "Christian"? You think what you believe is correct but who is to say it is? For every belief you have someone else out there has an opposite belief that they know in their hearts to be true.
The only ungodly and delirious people I see are the ones who go on caps lock-malfunctioning typo-infested rants about how righteous they are, and how disgusting the rest of the world is. I think maybe you need to re-evaluate yourself and your faith, because if your God is a god who supports this kind of action I'm not sure I would want anything to do with him.
-Adam
2006-09-06 05:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Adam W 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I disagree with you on a lot of levels here. First of all, we are living in a society where EVERYONE has broken God's will. We are all sinners in one way or another and we have no right to judge anyone. You have no right to judge me for living with my fiance right now before we marry, and by the way, not only are we living togehter we are expecting a baby next month. Does that make you a better christian than me? Does that mean that you have a stronger relationship with God than I do? No. That means that I have chosen for my own reasons to go against God's will. How I decicde to live my life is between Him and I.
Everyday I do something that is against God's precious law. Everyday I make my peace with it and everyday I ask for His forgiveness. Explain to me why it is left up to you to judge me and other's like me for what we do. Doesn't it say that in the Bible to let He who is without sin cast the first stone?
Judgemental people is the reason a lot of Christians do not go to church. I wouldn't want to go somewhere to worship God and be in fear of being judged by other sinners who may or may not do worse than I do.
2006-09-06 05:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What better way to learn if you can live with someone than to live with them?? What your suggesting is that people should not live together, should not enjoy a sex life - nothing - the fact you find this all nauseating says to me you are very firm in your beliefs and that is fine but why push your beliefs onto other people - there is religion and there is bible bashing - Im happy for anyone to believe in their respective religion as they choose but dont push your beliefs onto me - Im not religious but isnt it so that a christian should also be forgiving? It doesnt sound to me like you are very forgiving at all - one of our customers is a Christian minister and as he said to me the other day the bible says (I have no idea where) that you should judge a man by his fruits then he went onto explain that this means that you should judge a person by what they do not what they say and this is basically in any area not just religion.
2006-09-06 05:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Kazz♥ 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Wow I truly respect the passion in your beliefs and it sounds to me that you want someone to recognize the truth in them. But do not forget an important passage in the bible that has been presented in every faith and spirtual belief, thou shall not judge, and do unto others as you would want them to do unto you.
The bible is not meant to be taken literally it is only a visionary idea of the true priniciples being set so that people who are lost will find their way to god. It is a matter of perspective. Did god mean that laying with another woman without love is a sin, or has that since been embelleshed by the laws of morality into something else like to loving someone is to be married. When you truly think about it there are so many who are married but no longer have love, only the convenience of what the idea of marriage represents. Are these people committing sin by truly embracing the denial of love. Or is it because to be married it must mean love. I do not think they are one and the same. And if you truly think about it instead of getting lost in the suggestion than you will know what the principle really is. To love someone is to accept god not to marrie them. Loving someone is the marriage of woman and man and the beauty of god within that. Not the beauty of what a paper with words suggests. But what god suggests
2006-09-06 05:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by fryedaddy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Living together is not a sin. While it can be a greater source of temptation for sexual activity, it is also possible to refrain from having sex before you are married. My wife and I lived together for 6 months before we got married, and we waited until we were married before having sex. I do agree though that society puts too much focus on needing to have sex and that because of this, the temptations are even more greatly increased.
But I see living together before marriage as a very good thing. For one, it cuts down on the expenses of living, allowing you to save up some money for your wedding/honeymoon. Second, you bring your dishes/furniture/etc and add them to hers, and you have your home furnished. You don't need people to give you couches and silverware, etc. to be able to start your family (although it is nice to upgrade to themed sets when you are able). Third, and most important, it allows you to see each others living styles to make sure they are compatible. How much would it suck to decide to not live together...get married...then find that you just can not stand how the other one lives and get a divorce because it "isn't working out"? With marriage...since it is for life, you better know that you can take their lifestyle before making a mistake.
2006-09-06 06:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Guvo 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First off, please calm down and use the caps lock key if you're going to type long strings of letters in all caps. It keeps apostrophes from becoming quotations and such.
And remember that most people aren't Christian, for one thing. Many are, but not most. Most would be over half of the world, which is incorrect. So there's one point.
In any case, not all Christians are going to follow YOUR rules. The first rule of Christianity is that all is forgiven, so you can pretty much lead the lifestyle you want to. And besides, you're being hypocritical. Wasn't it Jesus himself who said, "Let him who is without sin cast the first stone"? You are sinful even in this message, because you yourself defy the word you hold so preciously: "Judge not lest ye be judged."
So what if people like to have sex with the ones they love? Marriage is putting on a ring and saying you love them. But having sex with someone you absolutely love doesn't change there. The love itself is not altered by the marriage. It's not your place to judge the actions of others, even according to your God.
My own gods do not have anything against sex outside of marriage, though I am myself a virgin, so your God's word is kind of nonapplicable to me...
And oh, yeah. It's not your place to say who can and cannot answer your question in this open forum. Jesus was ashamed of bigotry and discrimination, so why are you a bigot in his name?
2006-09-06 05:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
are you saying that you are perfect? That you go by every one of "gods rules" in the bible? Let me tell you that is why us Christians have confession... Do you have any piercings? tattoos? dye your hair? go to tanning salons? that is all against gos wishes. You should respect your body as god gave it to you, not as society tells you to.
I could, however, relate to your statement of abstinence and such. I believe that is done because people see that in our "new" world. Society does not take marriage seriously anymore. Same reason why they made it ok to be married by a judge. You should get married by church. Receive gods blessings. After all it is a sacrament. That is the number one thing that is disobeyed by Christians.
2006-09-06 05:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Ja mone` 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What would you prefer...a society of fornicators or a society full of divorced couples? Because that is what you would have if people didn't live together first, I am absolutely convinced of that. Couples who live together before marriage, allow themselves to learn about their partners things that they would not otherwise find out. For example, wouldn't you want to know if your partner was a complete slob before you married them? Or that they leave the cap off the toothpaste? Or snore a lot? These, believe it or not, are the kinds of things that end up causing divorce because it's the small things like that that grate on your nerves until you can't stand it any longer.
I am not a believer in God or religion. I think the only person that can decide what you should or shouldn't do, is you.
2006-09-06 05:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
People like to do things the easy way. It is hard to live right and do the right thing. Why get married and work on keeping a relationship going when it is easier just to part ways and find someone else to spend a little time with. True love involves sacrifice.
2006-09-06 05:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by miki 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Morality is relative.
But, on this one I have to agree. Marriage is a commitment before society and sometimes god.
Living together is not a good idea. There are few reasons for it to endure when things start to get rough. It tends to be serial rutting with new partners every few months or years.
Many times the women get the worst of it by not marrying at all and finding themselves 30ish and alone. Guys can still marry some younger girl who doesn't sleep around.
2006-09-06 05:37:04 · answer #11 · answered by emperor_chino 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋