Please answer this?? what should I do?
Please read,I'm 15, and would really appreciate you honest advice, even though this is long. thanks!?
What should i do?
Could you please give me the best advice you have? I am just not ready to let her go yet??
this is an email she replied to me...is she letting me down easy, or is she scareed, like she says she is...because she is only 13 and never been in a relationship before??
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
This happened about a week ago. I havent barely talked to her since, and am respecting her decision. My question is.
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Does she not like me like that, or is she just scared. Because, me and her obviously had something goin, and then she just kinda stopped, and now this. So what should I do. I know not to smother her, and not to bring it up. I am respecting her wishes, because I want her to be happy. she is 13 and i am 15 . And dont say Im to young. I know, I've like many girls, but none like her, and I am jsut not ready to let her go.
2006-09-06 04:50:39 · 10 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-06 04:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by prince 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She wants to be your friend and believes that if you two started a relationship, it would ruin the friendship. I didn't see anything in her letter that indicated she was scared. It just sounds like, she only wants to be your friend. So if you're looking for a g/friend, ovbiously she is not the one. I know you don't want to let her go, but unfortunately you have to. She doesn't want to be with you. She only wants friendship from you. You need to find someone who is willing to devote herself to you. This girl, is not ready for a relationship and who knows how long it will take before she's ready. Still be her friend, but explore other females too. You are putting all of your time and energy into this one girl when there are other females out there that you could certainly get to know better and who is ready for a relationship.
2006-09-06 12:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes you but she's scared.. even if you don't wanna hear this but "you're still young".... if you really meant for each other just let faith takes it place to bring you back wer you really belong... talk to her, tell her what you think & feel... but right now, you both have a lot of things to know... getting into a serious relationship is not as simple as you think.... why don't you concentrate in your studies, be friends with her like you used to, enjoy being young... by the time you two are ready & the feeling is still there, then go ahead...
2006-09-06 12:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by samz_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back off for a few weeks and lay low.. after that start being friendly with her again and from there see how it goes, if you think things are looking good maybe sit down face to face and tell her how you feel this way you can see the expression on her face ... you can tell alot by the way people look at you and react..Good luck and i hope things turn out for you the way you want them too let me know...:)
2006-09-06 11:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by brutalA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in hell do you keep posting this same e-mail? You need to let her go and focus school and being more mature. You're too young to be so wrapped up in a girl. You can't work, you can't vote, you can't smoke, but you're worried about a lil girl. Just stop, take a breather, and ease up because you are coming on too strong and she will definitely be scared off.
2006-09-06 11:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude....stop being so selfish and self-centered ("I'm just not ready to let her go"). It's clear the girl doesn't have the same feelings for you and you'll just make a fool of yourself if you try to force her to care when she doesn't. Mourn. Grieve. And get over it! Find a girl your own age while you're at it, too. Thirteen is way too young....Godloveya.
2006-09-06 11:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a question as to whether you are too young or not. She is the problem. Age wise, she is too young. The cops would be knocking at your door faster than you can say "rape". She is not scared. She does not want you as a boyfriend. She is actually more mature than you. Give it up.
2006-09-06 11:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by pskcab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already asked this question a few days ago.The answer's still the same...move on.You can't decide when it's time to let her go.She's not your property and you have to get it in your head that you've been dumped
2006-09-06 11:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, you should talk to her. Ask her why does she feel like that. If you talk to her she might give you some answers. :)
2006-09-07 19:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by Miyuki (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her go n c wot happens, your both still young
nothing too drastic plz
2006-09-06 11:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lanabelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋