I want to get everything and finally lands up empty hand. Why it is so. How can i take firm decisions and stick to them. I do a lot of day dremings. Advise
2006-09-06 04:37:09 · 6 answers · asked by Osho 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Try to make sure you complete at least one thing a day that you set out to do. If you have a lot of interests, that is fine. Just make sure you are fulfilling your responsibilities before sampling all of your other interests.
2006-09-06 04:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FOCUS FOCUS FOCUS
Decide what you want to do. Set a goal, and that goal is SET IN STONE. The game plan and means you use to achieve that goal may change along the way, but the GOAL REMAINS FIRM. Set a hard date on the goal. DO NOT WAVER. Even if you feel you are changing your mind or losing interest in the goal, DO NOT CHANGE IT. Then, when the date comes, reassess. You may find a new or different goal is necessary.
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2006-09-06 05:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great that you have recognized this as a problem. Do you have someone that you can talk to about your priorities for right now? If not, prioritize your goals by yourself. Don't waste time, keep a balanced schedule and make progress every day. I'm sure there are many books that can help you improve your habits. Good luck.
2006-09-06 04:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by Curious in Seattle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow , i do the same thing, i want to do everything, i want to volunteer for all sorts of organizations, i am currently unemployed so im broke and dont have to worry about buying and making and fixing up stuf at this point so now i want to volunteer for animal shelters and rescue , underprivilaged children, ect. who am i and who needs me somewhere? is that what it is a subconcious desire to be needed and fit in somewhere? i am currently getting ready to start treatment for hcv so im really lost and you think my bipolar has something to do with it the manic phase ? well my medication does help now that im taking it right, one of the symptoms of bi-polar is grandios illusions of ones self , meaning- un attainable far fetched illusions and thoughts that are to the real extreme some maybe not so extreme, like myself i see i can usually only handle one goal at a time and that kills me, id better work on my dr's appointments and hcv and just being there for my daughter right now, i hope i didnt ramble too much and bore you but your question hit home. good luck i day dream alot too about things i want to accomplish. e:mail me sometime id love to chat with you. betsyturminyen@yahoo.com
2006-09-06 05:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by betsyturminyen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ending up empty handed ask yourself this? Are your goals realistic? Do you have them set to high for yourself? Maybe you should start with little goals and then work up to the big ones remember we all took baby steps before we could walk. Start small and build yourself up from there.
2006-09-06 04:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what's up? how come you have a problem of indecision?well, you are not alone,everyone feels that way sometimes. all you have to do is just set your goal for every day you wake up.take a piece of paper and write out all you plan to do for the day then say a little prayer to God for a sense of direction.HE is able to make all things possible always believe and trust in him.GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-06 04:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by jay girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋