Please read,I'm 15, and would really appreciate you honest advice, even though this is long. thanks!?
What should i do?
Could you please give me the best advice you have? I am just not ready to let her go yet??
this is an email she replied to me...is she letting me down easy, or is she scareed, like she says she is...because she is only 13 and never been in a relationship before??
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
This happened about a week ago. I havent barely talked to her since, and am respecting her decision. My question is.
2006-09-06 04:32:12 · 15 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does she not like me like that, or is she just scared. Because, me and her obviously had something goin, and then she just kinda stopped, and now this. So what should I do. I know not to smother her, and not to bring it up. I am respecting her wishes, because I want her to be happy. she is 13 and i am 15 . And dont say Im to young. I know, I've like many girls, but none like her, and I am jsut not ready to let her go.
2006-09-06 04:33:58 · update #1
She said "we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay."
She doesn't like you like that. Sorry.
2006-09-06 04:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my honest opinion is that she is scared. she is too young too know what she wants so she makes up excuses-that is what we girls do a lot of when we do not know what we want. give it some time and think it over: do you want to be just friends -really good friends with her-or would you date her and thenyou two could break up? i have many friends who have been in the same shoes as you are being put in right now but they chose a friendship which after a year or so paid off and then they started dating.the choice is yours.good luck.
2006-09-06 11:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let her go unless and untill you really feel u shd let her free, if she is ment for u she will be urs in the long run.. this happens with most of us and we all have to go thru this.. but we normally come out nice.. so try n talk to her like a really good friend rather than conciously emphasizing on love.. she might be able to tell u whats going on with her!! understand her first of all.. thats the best way to go ...
ALl the best
Deep
2006-09-06 11:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe when you thought that you had something going it was a mere best friend thing to her. then when you revealed to her that you wanted more it scared her, because it sounds like she doesn't look at you like that. Sounds like she is very interested in being your friend but nothing more. I don't think it's being scared, sorry. But I would just be a friend and that's it. Don't push anything else. Good luck.
2006-09-06 11:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman of 26 going on 27, I can tell you, you both at this age don't know what you truely want. You guys have what we can call puppy love. When you get older then you'll know. She's 13 years old, one day she likes one style next month another and this is how it is with everything else.
2006-09-06 11:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her decision to just be friends. After all you are both young. If any thing else is meant to come of this it will. Just relax and enjoy your friendship.
Good Luck to You!
2006-09-06 11:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by sexylips232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds oddly familier. Ive already answered this like 2 weeks ago. I told you then and im telling you now: Stay her friend. In 3 years it will be illegal for you to date her anyway.
2006-09-06 11:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She straight up said exactly what she felt, that she wanted only friendship. Try not to get to overwelmed in her and bug her, just let the friendship happen and who knows in time it may become something more.
2006-09-06 12:21:10 · answer #8 · answered by ladylunamina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no1 is ready 2 let go of da love of their life..irrespective of their age...
i agree wid u..dat its hard 2 let go of ur love...for whom u have feelings inside...
u need 2 talk 2 her once IN PERSON...no fone call...no mail...no friends involved..just U & HER...
tell her how u feel for her..how much u love her...& how even after shes gone..ur unable 2 stop thinking bout her...
my friend..if she loves u..den nothing like it...but if she stays adamant on her decision...& if u also cant let go of her...den tell her...dat ur ready 2 wait for her & wud let dis reltionship go as friends till shes comfortable...
she'l respect ur answer...
da day she realises dat u love her more den da words u said..she will come back 2 u...
leave it all on destiny,,,,
but if she does not...
den dont hate her...accept it...& let life give dis relationship a new name...called Friendship....
2006-09-06 12:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to be your friend, give her time, don't be to pushes and your young there are other girls out there
2006-09-06 11:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by turtledove4658 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋