he says he loves me but he is on the net daily looking for new girls & asking them to meet him.i dont know if he goes to meet them or not.but i dont like him chatting daily.i seriuosly dont know what he gets out of it.actually i met him thru chat room.sometimes he is very loving & then suddenly he becomes very moody & starts snapping at me.
2006-09-06 04:21:29 · 40 answers · asked by rashi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy i will tell you this and i hope it sinks in - your in a wrong relationship.
when he says he loves you, he's only saying that to delay the process, the first chance he gets when he meets a gal he likes better, hes gona dump you before you realise what hes doing and dump him.
if he loves you he wont be doing this to you, he wont be shopping around cos once he's found the right one he'll stick to it.
he's moody with you and snaps cos maybe he feels he's stuck with you and he's having trouble getting out quicker.
your letting him add insult to injury, just go.
dont ask what if's and assume he'll change, thats how 9 out of 10 relation fails.
There's millions of guys out there and one of them would wana meet you and give you 24/7 loving. believe me, your making it unfair for yourslef and them if you stick with him.
remember - love is loyalty and loyalty he dont have.
2006-09-06 04:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u guys had met thru some other way, i would suggest a perhaps much easier solution. But since u say u guys met thru net, i strongly suggest that u dump him. i know it sounds really harsh and hard to do but i think ur guy is just addicted with this whole net dating thing.
I guess this is what i would do if i was u. Or at least before doing this, i would talk to him about this issue. ask him whether he loves u or not. If he says he loves u, then ask he's got the need to meet other girls on net. Ask him what he would do if u did that to him. Dont give him a chance to suppress u by changing the topic or by getting angry at u. Tell him its either do or die. he either promises to change or u walk out of his life thinking it was just a bad dream.
Anyways, everything is in ur hands. U an just do what u feel like doing. Its ur life afterall!
2006-09-06 04:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by mad_integer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You met him through chat room. Ask him how many hours he spent to find you. I will take some time to modify his habit.
Maybe you are not behaving the same way as you behaved when both of you were net friends. The chat fantasy is still alive in his brain. Or maybe he is just testing you how far you will tolerate.
How you come to know he is still in his old habit? He is frank enough to tell you so. He seems to be very honest. Do not take a haste decision, just watch him and discuss frankly that you donot like this habit of him.
2006-09-06 06:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dipak B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See it is relationship you are talking about wherein you both have to compromise somewhere or the other. Try your luck, have a serious conversation with him and tell him that it hurts you when he behave in such manner. If he agrees then good. but if he don't then be sure about in how much depth he is in chatting? before taking any final decision think what your heart and brain is telling you rather than what we are telling you. You have to be very honest to your self. It is the matter of your whole life. MY BEST WISHES ARE ALWAYS WITH YOU.
2006-09-06 04:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by crazychori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut feeling..if you met him on the net, chances are that he can meet other girls on the net. if he tells you that he IS searching for new girls, then at least you know he is being honest, and it's up to you to have that open relationship or not. If he denies searching for new girls, since you already know that he does, I would suggest breaking it off before you get too attached and your blind love misleads you into thinking that you can change him....like the rapper TOO SHORT says, "you cant make a hoe a housewife!!
2006-09-06 04:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by Lakerfanatic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a silly girl... When you know that you both knew each other over net, then why are you worried. You have not married him. He thinks otherwise. When he got you while chatting, he hopes that he might get other girls also. So that he can enjoy women. It is not his fault. Do not think seriously about him. If you do not like his ways, better say him goodbye forever...
2006-09-06 04:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you stay with him? That choice is ultimately yours to make but I haven't seen one good reason for you stay based on your question.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-06 04:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not happy about him chatting up girls on the net you need to tell him so. personally i don't think that is on at all especially if he's arranging to meet them! there's no point continuing in a relationship that you're not happy in. good luck!
2006-09-06 04:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, for all the reasons you listed. You're like a plan b. You'll do until he finds someone else. You deserve better.
2006-09-06 04:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him to take a hike
you deserve better than him
what are you doing meeting boyfriends on the internet
its not smart and he could be dangerous
id get out fast
2006-09-06 04:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by x3holdaloverclose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋