We have been dating for 3 years but now all of a sudden she wants to break up. It is not because of anyone else but she doesnt trust the hole word of love anymore. I am trying to stay good because i care for her and stay by her side but it is tough. I cant be there for her if she is not there for me.
2006-09-06 04:06:50 · 11 answers · asked by c=bo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run....If she's going to throw away 3 years due to this, doesn't sound like the most stable person in the world. However, she may be testing you.
2006-09-06 04:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's scared at the moment, and hurting. The divorce of one's parents affects one at any age, as it suggests that love might not last forever.
It's going to be hard for you if you love her and want to stay with her. She will reject your advances, she will do crazy things. All the same, she needs someone to whom she can talk about how she is feeling. Someone she trusts and who cares about her. You may end up taking the brunt of her negativity at times, but she desperately needs support.
Her rejection of love will eventually pass, but no-one can predict how long it will take for her to settle down once more. If you believe that she is worth waiting for, and you keep supporting her whatever happens, your relationship will be back and stronger than even. But it's not something that will come back overnight and it will not be easy.
2006-09-06 04:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Weeble316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, stick around.
sure it'll be tough for a while (sorry), but when she comes out of this divorce and sees you're still around, she'll believe in true love again.
Her feelings of rejection or whatever from her parents' divorce have nothing to do with you - you just happen to be in the line of fire.
2006-09-06 04:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be a friend and be understanding. She is going through a rough time and will need someone to turn to when she's ready. If you love her truly then the 2 of you will get through this.
2006-09-06 04:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might nt believe in the whole word of love maybe bcoz she thinks that divorce might happen too to her one day. i think instead of breaking up you should take a break on ur relationship. tell her to think before saying that she wants to break up. tell her to take sme time thinking about it before answering u. she might still love u but she may feel sort of betrayed. wat i would advise u to do is to give her sme time to think about everything. let her think alone unless she wants u giving her some about how to feel abt it.
2006-09-06 04:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by animallover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes given up completly then u should give up on her...im sorry your hurting and all but its better if you give urself sometime to get over her and find someone who loves you enough to build a relationship with her-- thats not based on what happened with her parents
2006-09-06 04:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a smart boy, stay! That should teach her, alot of things!
2006-09-06 04:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY TO STAY BY HER SIDE SHE IS GOING THOUGH ALOT NOW . SO TRY TO STAY IN THERE IF YOU CAN. GOD BLESS YOU.
2006-09-06 04:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away...
2006-09-06 04:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋