I got really drunk on friday night, and to cut a long story short one of my mates long term but fairly recently ex girlfriend nabbed me and snogged me and then bundled me off in a cab to her house. I was so drunk I would have snogged a wilderbeast if its tongue came near my face. anyway we didn't do anything other than snog cos I can remember just passing out. I woke up in her bed though buit know fro certain nothing happened. problem is do I contact this guy come clean and try and explain that nothing happened or should I just hope that he won't find out. I don't see this particular mate that often anymore.
2006-09-06 04:01:18 · 13 answers · asked by crownose 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS I'm not interested in anything with her, I'd never go out with a mates ex cos I'd hate it done to me.
2006-09-06 04:18:18 · update #1
oh hell, just go back and do the deed with her, your mate is going to assume you did her anyway, so might as well have a little fun!
2006-09-06 04:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say tell her you regret the whole thing and don't want it to damage your relationship with her or your MATE (if that's true) so you think the least said about it the better. See what she says. It may be best to just put it behind you. She may feel the same way.
I don't think it's worth concerning your mate unduly. Telling him will only cause doubt. You didn't say if you were interested in continuing the relationship with her given the chance. It might be worth finding out how your mate feels about her now.
B well.
2006-09-06 04:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Karl X 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, either tell him right up front, or never. Don't wait til later.
I had a friend save me from a bad chick that way. I would have married her if he hadn't told me she was a closet whore
2006-09-06 07:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, bring it up if approached but as nothing happened and you were drunk I dont see the issue.
2006-09-06 04:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by Daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man tell him. If he finds out another way, it is like you are hiding something. If he gets angry, let him take a swing at you, and it will all be cool....
Then go get a beer, and get over it.
2006-09-06 04:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Homer H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it, don't hurt him unnecesarily. If he finds out tell him you're sorry and explain how it happened and tell him you didn't tell him because you didn't want to hurt him or let him know what a b*tch and sl*t his ex is, 'nuff said
2006-09-06 04:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Silence is golden. Try that for an approach.
2006-09-06 04:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i would say i couldnt remember but if it hits yout concience so bad then yes come clean
2006-09-06 04:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lanabelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somethings are better left unsaid
2006-09-06 04:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he dont know wont hurt him.
2006-09-06 05:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by Blkoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋