You see girls find it very hard to stand back up with their own two feet after a break up. unlike guys,they heal faster. i would just want to know if this is true or am i stereotyping because that is what guys like to potray just because of their ego'ness?!
2006-09-06 03:52:28 · 20 answers · asked by sweet_lil_diana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys do not heal faster unless they weren't in love to begin with. Guys take the scars form a heart break and carry them through life just the same, if not worst and longer than women. They just are way better at covering up their feelings!
2006-09-06 03:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys feel bad when a girl cries because for some unknown reason they think they could have prevented it. They don't always realize that it's not their fault and end up feeling guilty. I wondered about the same question until I had a guy friend of mine fully explain it to me. As for why he thought you did good even though you didn't think so... is you always look so much better from the eyes of someone that loves you than the way you look at yourself. Finally guys get all excited because they get really into no matter what they're doing so when someone does well it's really exciting and when someone doesn't do so well they are a little surprised by the mistake. It doesn't mean anything and you shouldn't take the ooooohs personally because guys don't realize it's making things worse. They try to be insensitive and don't usually understand how girls feel.
2016-03-27 00:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not true, guys has just as hard a time as the girls. In some cases I am sure there is girls that also get over a breakup very fast. But its hard to stereotype. But in most cases I have to say that guys doesn't show their grief as clearly as women.
2006-09-06 03:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy, some are more emotional than others, myself no. After I break up with a girl, I actually look forward to being single and meeting new girls. But I have some friends who take it pretty hard.
2006-09-06 03:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if in the past i will said break up is not a big deal.
i never knew it will be so hurt since i experienced it few days ago. At first life it just like hell, no matter how hard i force myself not to think of her , the memories just flash my mind. It's really terrible ..cant sleep at night , when woke up first thing that come across my mind is her, then tears begun rolling down.
But, i know i really feel better when u talk bout it to some1 u feel close. Its better than keep it in your heart. BUt still the wound is still remaining in my heart and i know it wont be gone forever..
I just feel this world is so unfair..Y i cant receive as much love as i gave to her?
2006-09-06 18:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be devastated to. I am friends with this couple who had been together for a year when he proposed in Las Vegas in front of me and 7 of our friends. 5 months down the road she realized she did not want to be tied down at 23 and be a stepmother. They were not having problems so imagine my friend's surprise when his fiancee called and not only called off their engagement but broke up with him. He was absolutely crushed and even though it has been seven months he still is not the same person he used to be before this.
2006-09-06 04:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought I had found the love of my life a couple years ago and when she kicked me out for another man hurt more than anything in the world had ever hurt me but I see now that it wasn't ment to be and what doesn't kill you makes you better and smarter
2006-09-06 03:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what ever gave you the idea we do not. Some may try to hide their feelings however, I havent meta man yet that has not had some bad feelings over a break up. also know many who have tried to hide them and ended up letting it out to a friend.
2006-09-06 03:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah guys do have same pain like girl, cause a true lover male has a soft heart than girls.
so even a small lies from a girl, he will not trust.....
2006-09-06 04:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by Vips_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all ego. We're all human. Think of it this way: All the things that drive you crazy about men, we think the same things about women.
2006-09-06 05:35:52 · answer #10 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋