I'm seeing this girl, and it's taking too long to have sex with her. I'm thinking about just showing up at her door with a trench coat on and nothing underneath, then when she comes to the door just opening up the coat. Girls, do you think this will freak her out, do you think it's too much of a chick thing to do, or do you think she'll be turned on. .
2006-09-06 03:26:26 · 26 answers · asked by joe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My sister did that once....to her boyfriend. When she picked him up at the airport...she had a trench coat on...and was naked underneath. Needless to say he liked it a lot! Good Luck!
2006-09-06 03:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Very dumb idea, what a guy would want a woman to do. Not the other way around.
Just date, get her in the mood and stop where she says stop. Repeat.
Frankly I'm a little put off by all the women who just give it up right away. I'm not going to turn down first date sex but I lose a little respect for the chick.
2006-09-06 03:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Subtlety is such a wonderful thing. I think you're right, that only works when women do it. Men are more visual and the sight of a naked woman has more effect on them than a naked man would on a woman. Women aren't usually so easily seduced. Invite her over to your place and tell her you're going to cook dinner. Get takeout from a restaurant if you can't cook. I think most adults know that a guy asking to cook you dinner at his place is a sex invite. If she says yes you're probably in. If she still wont sleep with you don't be demanding. If you can't wait find someone else.
2006-09-06 03:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've go to be kidding. I don't know this particular girl, but I think not. This would be a huge risk. You would look like a pervert with a trench coat on. She would probably laugh but maybe not. It might freak her out. Either way, its not good.
2006-09-06 03:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know when she wants to have sex with you that is up to her to decide not you. We know men are horny so i doubt its that she doesn't think you don't want sex. If you try forcing the situation to happen before she is 100% ready it may put an end to the relationship. So if you are willing to lose the girl, go for it. If you are really into her, just respect the fact that she doesn't want to have sex with you just yet. And if you decide to wait, just remember you always have "Rosie" i hear she helps in this situations quite a bit! lol Good luck to you anyhow!
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2016-05-18 06:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont think that is a good idea it should only be done by girls. i think she would laugh at you. if i was you i would just turn ur with candles chamagne and strawbwerries and squirty cream and some good sexual music when you know no1 is in. then when she opens the door dont sat anything just kiss her and pick her up take her to the bed room and just undress her and lay it on her but dont speak even if she is like "whats going on"
2006-09-06 03:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by sensual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um if a guy I liked did that to me I think I would laugh, because it is so unexpected, what you need to do and don't laugh is rent a nice hotel room or even use your bedroom and put rose petals on the bed ask discreetly what her favorite wine is and put a bottle by the bed. Rent a romantic girlie movie and cook her a nice dinner. I think you will get some for that. I wish a guy would do that for me.........
2006-09-06 03:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know that's a BAD idea, most likely she will be freaked out. Try something a little romantic maybe, cook for her and have some music and wine, take care of her needs i bet she will give in.
2006-09-06 03:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by sour_apple809 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't
If she has not had sex with you she can have several reasons for this, like nervousness, shyness, maybe she's embarrassed None of these can be countered with such an act. You'll probably freak her out even more!
2006-09-06 03:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by Biology mayorgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋