i spoke to my bf regarding my lost of passion towards him.. he always plays it down or attribute it to PMS.. we behave more like buddies or best friends rather then lovers.. sigh.. i dunno where is this leading to..
2006-09-06 03:17:20 · 8 answers · asked by dreamy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to a breakup if you don't do smth about it
2006-09-06 03:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by G. C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him about it? Communication is always key to a good relationship. As far as rekindling your passion, try sharing sexual fantasies with him. Something like if "you do mine, then I'll do yours" type of situation. That could be great fun. Try going out on a "date" to a romantic restaurant or something that you would have done in the beginning of your relationship. Or about a romantic, intimate weekend just the two of you? Traveling together, and having a good time, is almost always a good boast to your passion and feelings for one another. Even a hotel stay in a local hotel in the city will spark things again because of the different locale. Just try different things/locations for variety and spice. Good luck.
2006-09-06 03:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you really have to think it over carefully about this relationship. If you really lost your passion towards your bf, I suggest that it is better for both of you to breakoff rather than dragging this relation. I believe that you will be happier in this way but the final decison lies on you if you have the courage to initiate the breakoff to him.
2006-09-07 00:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My only comment is... do you want to be stuck with him by marrying him? I've been married to my husband for 19 years and sex was alway ok, but in recently years, there has been NOTHING. He is my best friend/buddy and he bores me to tears. Do I want to live like this for another 20 years? Ah, no!
If he is only your boyfriend.. then my advice is to find a new boyfriend and keep this guy as your best friend/buddy. Best of luck.
2006-09-06 03:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it could be a case of (lack of pleasure) when a partner is not pleased with certain aspects of a relationship then it becomes passionless because its like the the person changes.just try some things that make both of you happy.
2006-09-06 03:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by wanrev1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think this is normal. You and him know each other too well. Thsi will lead to marriage or breakup.
2006-09-07 00:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by Grace is a liar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like its over then!!
2006-09-06 03:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him an ultimatum
2006-09-06 03:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋