Say you have a boyfirend that lives about 4 citys away, and you get a call frome him telling you that he will be moving to Idaho!, but he still wants to go out with you . then he tells you that he loves you... i dont want to be with him because i know that he will be gone next summer, but i still love him to. what should i do!!!!:(
2006-09-06 03:10:54 · 6 answers · asked by pleaseroxy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love him, you will bear with a long-distance relationship.
2006-09-06 04:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by Chase H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the time you DO have with him, for Heavens' Sake!!! Next summer is a long ways off & a lot can change by then. Even if he does move away, at least you will have had the love for however long it lasts. If you back out of his life now, you will have missed out on what could have been the sweetest time in your life. You won't know unless you go for it. Life is short, go for all of the happiness you can get when you can get it - none of us is guaranteed the next day . . .
2006-09-06 03:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay with him and have fun with him if you feel that you love him till the summer and see where it goes.. may be you'll hate him in Feb... who knows and then that will answer your question for you.. maybe you can do a long distance thing and then move out to idaho later... it is such a open time frame right now.. i am not sure if you should make any sudden moves right away.
have a heart to heart with him and may be you can solve the problem together.. there are alot of different ways to go about it. go with your heart.
2006-09-06 03:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by crystal s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and he should seriously evaluate the relationship and see where both of you *really* want it to go. If you see it as just a passing thing then you should let him go and find someone local. But if it's something you both want long term then you should find a way to make it work even at the distance.
2006-09-06 03:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by techie74354 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u should try & spend ur best time with him if u feel he really loves u & even u do love him 2.u should be with him inspite of the fact that he's gonna leave & spend some lovely moments of ur life & if make him promise that he'd call u up once in a week & tell how much he misses u there!!!! that would be the best i feel .bye!all the best!
2006-09-06 03:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by devoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though u love him can u bear to be in a long distant relationship?
2006-09-06 03:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by sexygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋