well , i was with this nice girl 4 a yr. during our relationship i had a few problems and i came to a time i could not call her as often as i should. she sent me a text message saying we should break up. i gave her 1 week to think about her proposal well. after a week she called me back to say she is very sure. and so we broke up. i have my dream job and everything is fine. she now wants a comeback after even after going out with someone i know. what should i do?
2006-09-06 03:06:41 · 12 answers · asked by ally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's always smart just to keep moving forward. She didn't magically change, she just has realized what she gave up. If you weren't worth working through the problems then, what will happen if another problem arises? There are lots of good women out there and you might be missing out on the ONE, while you are trying seconds with an ex.
2006-09-06 03:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all its up to you. THink about this k? for some reason she wanted to call it off, wither it was because you werent able to talk to her as much or she just coundnt handle the relationship at that time. If she didnt cheat on you or be unfaithful to you, I say Go for it. if you still love each other then fine. But if she has cheated on you then i wouldnt go back with ehr because unfaithfulness is just soemthing you dont want in a relationship.
But you need to tell her that hey I have job that might require some time out of me, so you are going to have to undrstand that.
2006-09-06 03:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still have feelings for her after all that she's done, then you really love her. So you can trust your instincts now. i know they( your instincts) are telling you to take her back. so just go ahead. but be careful this time.....you should first of all try to find out, whether or not she's now a changed person. not some one, who'll always want a break up when ever there's a little problem in the relationship, instead of trying to fix it.
2006-09-06 03:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rasman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking. Doesn't sound like she's ready for a real relationship. She'll bail when things don't always go her way. You need someone strong enough to get through the difficult times with you.
2006-09-06 03:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Amy P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had her chance. You have clearly worked hard to attain your position, she bailed out during your striving period. Tell her this and, no matter what she comes back with, do not go back with her. Not now, not ever. Look forward and do not block future potentials by shackling yourself to this girl from the past. Good luck and best regards, snowy.
2006-09-06 03:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by snowy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey why not..people see their mistakes(sometimes)or maybe the other guys "willy" was smaller??!...really though you cant learn to be a better person without suffering through mistakes if anything you'll get some what could it hurt..just be safe dont add kids into a situation like this
2006-09-06 03:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
FU*K that B*TCH!!! She is a gold digging heifer. whatever happened with u and ur downfall or whatever if she was a true female she was supposed to be there for u not leave. now all of a sudden since u back on ur feet she wanna come back after she dates someone u know? HELL NO she a bonafide HO!!!
2006-09-06 03:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by sexygurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to take her back? Are your feelings for her strong or do you think that you could live with out her? If you can live with out her then you don't need her.
2006-09-06 03:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by im2cute4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take her back. she left you in the first place so she could go messing around. why would you think you should take her back now after you got your life together? its her loss,,dont be a fool. if she couldnt wait for you to get your **** together shes not even worth it.
2006-09-06 03:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gave her a chance and she choose to end it. If it were me, the only thing she would see is my rear end quickly moving away from her!!
2006-09-06 03:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋