He thinks he's better than anyone else, especially you, and even though he's a year younger he thinks he's smarter than you, and made you feel like no matter how hard you tried, you were just short of good enough. Puts you through guilt trips all the time ("I felt obligated to go to your sorority formal, I felt like I had to or you'd be mad..." yea right), and is an all-around buttfart. Please tell me I'm not the only one who's had an ex like this!
2006-09-06 02:56:27 · 19 answers · asked by GLSigma3 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have proven to me that you are an intelligent person, because you are describing this guy as your "EX" - and that is what he should be! You go girl!!! ;)
2006-09-06 02:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by Paul H 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
uuuggghhh girl I think we can all relate........ what about the ex who doesn't like any of your friends and tells you you are fat when you are a size two all because he is insecure and controlling. How about getting woken up by being hit with a pillow because he "had a dream that you were cheating on him" No you are not the only one...but I say good riddance and seriously how sorry are they???? Pathetic is more like it or maybe mentally ill. Don't let that make you treat all guys different though....they are not all jerks. ;-) Make sure you don't fall into a pattern with them...watch the small things to get the big picture..good luck
2006-09-06 03:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by Miss J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and mine would be my soon to be ex-husband...we were married young 18 and divorced now at 23 and it drives me nuts how cocky he is. I used to admire it as one point prior to our being married because I thought that he was just confident but it didnt take long to realize that he thought and still thinks that he is better then everyone else including me. The last time that I saw him (a few days ago), he told me he could talk anyone into anything and that he could sell water to a whale. Can you believe the nerve of that idiot to think that he is that great? He thinks that he is the almighty and is a self-proclaimed "hustler"...Hes only 22 right now and hopefully he will grow up or at least someone will take a pin and deflate his fat friggin head...
2006-09-06 03:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all men are the same love im sayin this from experience no man wants to loose his ego of being a man after a bvreakup they all want to brag they are the ones who dumped you and want to put you down always but you know the moment you want to clear this up with him he feels happy he is getting to you but wat i have to tel you s yes go ahead make him feel he iw a winner and your the looser dont answer huim back or want to let him no he wasnt worth it coz it will only haunt you even if you are sahying the truth. tghe more you ignire him the more he gets hurt and the more he feels like a looser himself. just be happy and forget the past dont let anyone maek you feel a looser coz you aint even if you were wrong and he is right just dont compete with him live him to brag he will soon found out he is being silly.thats wat these guys do they want you to feel guilty and you know the other thing guys who have treated you bad always want you to think they are the last pebble in the sea and noone else is better than them . but when you get someone else you will see he will be feeling jelous and scared that the new guy will treat you better than him my advice dont get too down about it they are all the same but be true to yourself dont compete you wont loose nothing if you let him win you will win a lot more of respect than anything else. so you go girl stand tall you are a winner
2006-09-06 03:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by jollybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bypass out along with his chum! That'll tutor him! I broke up with my boyfriend of 15 months a on a similar time as in the past through fact he cheated on me. i could had a weigh down on his chum, who additionally had a weigh down on me, so we've been given mutually. ex boyfriend then observed how stupid he became and tried each and every thing to come again with me. I have been given flowers, jewlery, poetry and love letters, even though it became his decision interior the 1st place so I disregarded all of it. Six months later and that i'm soo pleased with my 'new' bf, and previous bf continues to be jealous. So bypass out along with his chum. I nonetheless pass over him, he became a ton of exciting, yet moving on (even though if it fairly is basically a rebound) is rather the terrific element to do. do not permit him understand which you pass over him.
2016-11-25 00:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an ex like that before and I was very..... how can i say this.... I was a soft person. But I got agressive and was not putting up with anyones crap and I stood up to him and just told him how i feel. Of course we broke up but he said he was sorry and hope to never treat another female like that again.
2006-09-06 03:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by Cici 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exes can be emotionally draining! This one obviously thinks you can't go on without him. I had one who called to ask me if I still remember his birthday! What would I be doing keeping rubbish in my brain? Some people can't let go. Talk to him; tell him he really doesn't need to go to all that trouble for you. If he doesn't understand, you'd need to tell him where to get off!
2006-09-06 03:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah my ex is just like that too. I don't care what he thinks or says, I live my own life and he can do, say or think whatever he wants. All I have to say is good luck to him because he's going to need it.
2006-09-06 03:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has an ex like that. Maybe with different hang-ups, but basically they are all buttfarts.
2006-09-06 02:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There probably isn't a woman alive that hasn't had an ex like that. Thankfully you can casll him "EX"
2006-09-06 02:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by lsehomeint 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋