I am not a bad looking guy but sistas will not give me a chance. Damn should I cross over? I make damn good money and I am a very good man. whats the problem?
2006-09-06 02:53:19 · 11 answers · asked by southernborn14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not about the money, not about being nice, not about looks. it's probably something she's not seeing, get my drift....
2006-09-06 02:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Oly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be many reasons for why you're not getting a response. Some Black women may already be involved with someone. Some may not be interested in dating at this time in her life. Some may be focusing on studies right now. Some may have issues that they don't want to put on a man. And some may just not be that into you. Maybe it's the way you come off to the Black women that you're encountering. There are other things that Black women are looking for besides a fat wallet. I know because I'm a Black woman. Just saying that you make " damn good money" is not enough to interest me. Are you a God fearing man who honors God in his life? Are you humble? Respectful? Kind? Check yourself before you just go blaming all Black women and saying that we don't know how to appreciate Black men.
2006-09-09 07:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by mochasister 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just haveto find the right girl that wants to cross over with you. Just because you want to start dating sistas doesnt mean that all women are going to follow :-) Look around for the right women that wants to have a relationship with you that will except you for who you are and nothing more.
2006-09-06 02:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls never want a good guy for some reason. I've been dying to meet one. You are a rarity. Don't worry, there are smart Black women out there like me looking for a good man who will give respect. Stay decent and you'll find her. There's only one person out there for you anyway.
2006-09-07 12:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Do_As_Infinity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all knock it off w/the sistas bs... if u wanna date outside ur race then go on ahead.. that's ur perogative... but don't say every sista.. maybe the ones u meet have someone already, or r not looking for a commitment.. or maybe ur looking to hard and in the wrong places...
and fyi $$$ and looks dont' mean nothing if u don't know how to treat us...
did it ever occur to u that u have no game or that u dont' know how to approach women or that ur boring.. did any of those things ever occur to u??
don't blame us for ur lack of game...
2006-09-06 03:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Erkle, it could be that handkerchief in your shirt pocket and the pocket protector in the other, not to mention, your pants are pulled up to your armpits and your sponge bob socks show. Let's rethink this thing for a bit, shall we? Perhaps a psychiatrist for a beginning.
2006-09-06 02:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about staying true, it's about being happy. Regardless of a woman's, creed, race or religion, you need to be with a woman whom you like for who she is on the inside, not the out.
2006-09-06 02:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something about your looks, hygeine etc.Those things matter to women too.
2006-09-06 03:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Johannu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and someone will love you for being you.
2006-09-06 02:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try harder dude
2006-09-06 03:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by Rasman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋