Hmm, well, I was on an old style BBS reciently, and met a girl. We both seem to realy like each other, have talked on the phone for hours at a time... I'm thinking (seriously) of going across the country to see her (I live in New Jersey, she lives in Hawaii)... We have exchanged pictures... I'm just scared I guess but I don't know if I should go see her...
What do you people think?? We've spoken in passing a few times in the past, nothing much, but over this past weekend we really (and i do mean really) seem to hit it off... there's barly a time now that I'm not thinking of her...
Also, if you think I should go see her, I need a good idea for a nice Gift to give her... not expensive though, so no jewlry:)
Thanks!
2006-09-06 02:38:07 · 6 answers · asked by Junior1544 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, to answer a question...
No, she doesn't work for, or is in the Army...
I'm 26, and she's 29...
I'm asking more so because we've talked so much so quick... just a few days and we seem to click together like i've never seen...
Thanks for the answers, and I hope for more thoughts!
2006-09-06 03:11:22 · update #1
Why wouldn't you go? It's no different than meeting someone in a bar or at a party..... actually in my opinion it's better. Just keep it relaxed and treat it as a vacation. Get yourself a nice hotel room and do some homework on the city your going to. If it doesn't work out you can go off on your own and not worry about her.
2006-09-06 02:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband on the chat line. We talked for a couple months, then we began phoning each other. After about 3 months, we knew it was time to meet. We have been very happily married now for 4 years. We also lived many miles, and several states, apart. He didn't bring me any gifts, but just the fact we were together was all I needed, but if you need a gift, how about a small glass figurine of some sort? Good luck!!
2006-09-06 09:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by cowboys21angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT!!!
Just make sure you book a hotel room - in case she's unable to accommodate you.
As for a gift? what woman doesn't doesn't like flowers and candy?
Have you ever heard of soap cards? They are fun-shaped soaps with messages written on them, cute idea, how about it?
2006-09-06 09:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by piteous_wight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's be much easier if you could find someone more local. Or just treat it as a holiday.
2006-09-06 09:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Woody 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you?
2006-09-06 09:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not Amy, is she?
2006-09-06 09:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by McAtterie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋