When you were the first girl's man she had sex with, what did you feel? Were you aware that you were responsible for her? And how did you feel after that, I mean did you love her more or nothing has changed in your attitude for her?
2006-09-06 02:30:30 · 21 answers · asked by Greeneyed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex out side of marriage is wrong, because God said, "one man, for one woman, for life".
2006-09-09 07:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by absoidaho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange question. Whether a woman is a virgin or not is unimportant. If the parties are having sex based on anything other than love and caring for each other, there will be no change in attitude, responsibility or love emotions. And likewise, if it is based on love, then all those feelings will grow for both partners, whether there are virgins involved, on either side.
2006-09-06 02:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We were together in a house with modern amenities and no one to trouble so we had enough time. She was beautiful with a figure of 'marble carved figure', to be precise 34-29-36 and 165cm height. I was 175cm. We both were scared first, but I know what was going to happen, so gave all support. We played some games, had food together, watched TV and went to sleep. Decided to take bath together and straight went to the bed from there. As we were hot she started to stare at me for some time and hugged. I was too ready but seeing my d*** bit long and hard, she started with symptoms of fear. I consoled as much possible and she agreed and I started slowly......................slept so throughout the night. She was not able to properly walk for two days but later we married and have that feeling every time!!! anything more you want?????
2006-09-06 02:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by OPTIMIST 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, men just want to take your virginity so they can say that they took it. No one else has been there. They will not love you b/c they were your first, you will love them more b/c they were your first and you will never forget it, or them. But chances are they will forget and move on. Don't do it b/c you think they will love you if you do. Do it b/c you are ready. Oh, and if they are not virgins themselves USE A CONDOM! You don't want your first time to get an STD or pregnant.
2006-09-06 02:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely Lady 27 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not a guy but i'm smart enough to know that when they take anyone's virginity well when it's given to them they don't feel like they owe u anything.. sex is sex, it's just w/a virgin it's tighter and it's new that's all..
sex doesn't make any man love u more.. if anything they'll convince u to only give it to them and before u know it they'll be wanting to experiment w/u in other ways...
2006-09-06 02:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My attitude changed in a positive way - a deeper, more respectful love for her - I truely believed she was the one I would be spending the rest of my life with .. didnt work out that way in the end though.
2006-09-06 02:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the girl with whom i had my first sex had already lost her virginity earlier.. But i felt extremely happy because i did not go to bed just to break her hymen... I went because both of us wanted to have each other...
I felt as if i was blessed afterward and my love grew further for her and wished i could have more and more ..
2006-09-06 02:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me i felt honored that i was the first,i felt closer to her because of our immanency,Afterwords i felt pleased because i made her feel good and myself as well,and that her first time wasn't a bad experience but loved her no more than usual just because she was a virgin so my attitude stayed the same but i have always felt closer to the woman afterwords.
2006-09-06 02:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It meant a lot to me. It has happened to me on several occasions. It is a special gift, that some one has decided to give you. I did not love them anymore than I did. It did however make them very special to me. Neither of the relationships worked out, however after 18 years I still talk to one of them. They have remained A friend.
2006-09-06 02:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by Texas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel in love before we had sex, her bieng a virgin meant i just took things at a slower pace.i loved her for about a year and a half until she experimented with other people.
2006-09-06 02:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by bgbelden 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋