This guy I work with asked me to go out. We have been out twice already, well I have feelings for him,he is a really nice guy, but we work together so it's hard to read him. He sadi he likes me and he always follows me around work and always ask to hang out but I'm not sure if he likes me the way I like him. I'm afraid he thinks of me as a friend to hang out with instead of a potential girlfriend. How can I find out without messing it up and making things awkward between us???
2006-09-06 02:24:01 · 6 answers · asked by babydj1803 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 21 and he is 31. I'm afraid if I ask and he doesn't feel the same way, then things will be awkward between us.
2006-09-06 02:29:28 · update #1
How old are you???? Just have an adult conversation with him and ask him what his intentions are. It's better then just going in circles and playing games. That way when you get your answer you will know.
2006-09-06 02:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by jeter2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Granpap gave me some good advice once. he told me "Dont get your meat where you make your bread." I would follow that advice in this situation because, if something should go wrong, you would have to face that person on a daily basis until one of you quit. Since you are asking, it isnt worth it.
2006-09-06 09:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by dirtbag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww I would run from that situation. Best to stay just friends.
2006-09-06 09:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work relationships are not good. there is sexual harrassment, complaints about underachievement (because he is following you), you reduce your chances for promotions and other factors to consider. find someone outside of work environment.
2006-09-06 09:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him how he "truly" feels about you and go from there.
2006-09-06 09:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't screw the crew!
2006-09-06 09:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋