My parents fell in love and they got married. But they just quarrel. Why is it so?

Answer 1

It's not necessary that when u r in love and get married things should always be fine. there are many things to consider. Not only is love the key to successful marriages. There are many factors like understanding,compassion,maturity,.....
So there should be something wrong somewhere. Don't get hurt in the process. It's the couple to resolve it so children should be kept away and not be affected
TAKE CARE

Answer 2

You haven't mentioned what type of personality your parents have. A certain level of quarreling is normal in any relationship, some more than others. Brothers and sisters fight, so why not parents? When you spend that much time together and are that close, it is easier to say what's on your mind, which can bring about conflict. It's how they fight, if they fight fairly and come to some kind of resolution, if all they do is fight, if they are ever loving towards each other when they're not fighting...there are many other factors to consider when you are trying to figure out your parent's relationship.

Answer 3

Everybody fights sometimes, but sometimes fighting becomes the only thing you have in common anymore. They might have been (and still might be) in love, but some people just can't allow themselves to be happy. That's why I think my parents always fought. They got bored with one another's personalities and instead of realizing this and working through it, they started picking on anything and everything they saw as a flaw in each other. They were the most selfish people I can imagine because my brother and I always got pulled into it, and sometimes even my friends when I was a kid. Money troubles also make people fight more often. Personally, I'd rather not worry about money and have a happy marriage, but sometimes it's not so easy.

Answer 4

Do you quarrel with your friends? Why? Because you have a different opinion from him. Thats could be why your parents quarrel. If you feel upset by that, then talk to them when the atmosphere is neutral.

Answer 5

That is reality. Sometimes opinions differ. Lovers should try to understand each other. They should excuse each other. The quarrel is because of ignorance and superiority complex. One day they will realise and adjust and understand each other. Time will teach everything. But you don't take it serious and spoil your career. All the best.

Answer 6

My parents married in 1947 he was British she was Italian - not a good start if you catch my drift! They have gone on the have 5 decent, well mannered, well educated children (if I do say so myself). They had to work hard every day of their lives until they retired. We never had any money but always a good meal on the table in the evening. My parents have now been married for coming up to 60 years. They pick, argue and are downright bloody rude to one another somedays, but we all know that they love, care and respect one another to the end. We five children are nothing but proud of our parents and we know that they think the world of one another. Don't let them bother you, just let them live their lives the way they want to.

Answer 7

this is so because love is just a passion and love ends after marriage.in very less cases love remains after marriage.if someone wants to live a happy married life then one should do only arrange marriage not love marriage.because people think that they love eachg other but actually they are just been cheated with their destiny that is why people quarrel after love marriage.

Answer 8

Not because they're in love the won't quarrel. they're still 2 different views. they'll always have differences. more or so in the beginning, then after a while they'll learn how accept eachother views, and the arguement will be less frequent. if they really love eachother they'll stick together no matter what, don't worry about it. they know what they doing.

Answer 9

if people agreed on everything 100% the world would be a boring place..
some people never learned how to communicate without yelling.. in fact I would say most people never learned this - as long as it isnt physical violence or even emotional violence (calling each other really bad names) and just angry quarrels that is normal and actually healthy - talking is good - its when they no longer communicate or ignore each other that you need to worry

just be good to both of them and stay out of the disagreements... unless it becomes violent - then call the cops

Answer 10

Maybe some people just communicate like that, maybe it's a habit. I'm old. My parents bickered literally til the day they died. Well,until my Mom died. My Dad was completely depressed when she passed. When she was sick, she was really sad that she couldn't be there for him for their 40th anniversary. So in spite of the noise and unpleasantness, must be something there.