with benifits i can handle that for right now but im afraid that my feelings are going to get in the way and he is confusing me because he told me he loves me was that just so he could get in my pants or does he love me by caring about me alot should i stop being friends with benifits with him er i dont know what to do......help give me some advice.....what do you think is going on here?
2006-09-06 02:14:46 · 9 answers · asked by Brierley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he keeps comming back for more so he must like....right it just confuses me when he tells me that he loves me but then tells me that he just wants to be friends with benifits with me maby at a later date we could try to get a relationship a try or just give up completly
2006-09-06 02:19:52 · update #1
Ohhhh, let it go now. Sounds like it was just a line to get in your pants. And of course you will gain feelings for this person and if you think that he isn't going to return the same to you, then save yourself the heartache.
2006-09-06 02:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like this guy just sees you as a booty call. If he really loved you then he would want a relationship with you. I think it was just a line for him to get into your pants. If I were you, I would stop being friends with benefits with him before you get more hurt and confused or before he´s the one who stops.
2006-09-06 09:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you, plain and simple. Until he can be clear about whether you have a love relationship or a lust relationship, you need cut things off. If he really want just sex from you and you're really okay with that, you need to make it clear that there should be no more emotional bull~ like pretending he loves you.
2006-09-06 09:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by erythisis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so easy next time. In fact it might be a good idea to wait until he puts a ring on your finger before having sex. You need a commitment before you commit your body. Unless he is willing to commit he is just looking for a booty call.
2006-09-06 09:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Texan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you already gave him whats in your pants and he wants more. you heard him say FWB. does he care about you well maybe BUT as a FRIEND one that lieks to drop her pants. Was the sex any good at least?
2006-09-06 09:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you young and inexperienced. Don't worry though you'll figure it out as you go along!
2006-09-06 09:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at the momment he just wants to be friends with you
2006-09-06 09:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You messed up by allowing him have a taste of you.
2006-09-06 09:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by ade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone love a f%$# buddy
2006-09-06 09:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by BOOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋