guys i need ur help?i meet a guy about 9mths ago he told me he doesnt do relationships and never will but wants to sleep with me{and loads others}i said no and left it at that now he rings me every day and txt me all the time does he just want what he cant have or is possile hes changed his mind?
2006-09-06 02:13:16 · 30 answers · asked by keevy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably not.
2006-09-06 02:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by cave dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 1s of all when a guy tells you hes not interested in a relationship and NEVER will be then theres never gooing to be any future for you with this guy. Ask yourself is that what you really want. I know its really hard to walk away from something that you want soo much and its easy for any of us people answering this question or people you know to stand there and telll you hes not worth your while but its not easy to just leave it, i understand what your going through good luck i cant really offer any advice i just hope what i said makes you feel better and good luck sunshine :)
2006-09-06 09:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing he has changed his mind on is how he will
approach you.If he didn't respect you 9 months ago, he won't
respect you know, He will tell you what you wont to hear then
when he's got what he wants, bye bye! You made a good
decision 9 months ago, stand by it.
2006-09-06 09:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by TAZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but most guys like a good chase. They like the challenge of trying to get something (or someone) they can't have. It's very doubtful that he has changed his mind. If you want to try things out with him, proceed with caution!
2006-09-06 09:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun ... hes after one thing still. He may have you on his list of women to "do" and if he thinks that you are a soft touch then he will try and try with you - as he thinks that you will give in.
Sounds to me that you are a sensible woman, run a mile hun. You dont know what hes got either if hes like that ie STD's ect.
2006-09-06 09:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him girly,
but beware he could be lying, he sounds like he wants to play, depends on the flavour of the txt msg, he may really really really fancy you or be out for you cause he wants what he can't have, as you say.
I think he knows you like him and he is setting down boundaries cause he thinks he's got you hooked.
2006-09-06 10:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by HOPE 4 THE FUTURE: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have become his conquest, target next mountain to climb.
He is a trophy collector and probably likes to be the centre of attraction, you will be the next glory story at the local pub and later the she was OK epitaph.
Still I could be wrong
2006-09-06 09:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by philipscottbrooks 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he has already told you that he don't want a relationship and that he want to do all kinds of girl.. take him at his word and tell him NO you don't want someone that is going to be with alot of different women while his is with you.. move on find one that does want to be with you and you only.. don't understand why you had to ask the question..it is obvious , stop answering his calls and pages also And under no circumstance have sex with him that would be very foolish
2006-09-06 09:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no hard and fast rule on that. it is possible that he has changed his mind but in my opinion any guy who says that in the forst place is just looking for his next bit of new action
2006-09-06 09:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by seamie_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its pretty simple hun just talk to him
and if it looks like he has done a compleate 180 and wants a relationshipwith you then i would say that he is just trying to get you into bed.
so make him take you out on dates and dont put out just to see if he actually wants to be with you or if he wants to bang you in any case make him earn it
and good luck to you
2006-09-06 10:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by magic_monkey78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a weirdo who can't take no for an answer and wants you to inflate his ego by pursuing him and having sex with him. Have nothing to do with him, he will turn out to be a control freak who will want to dominate your life, trust me
2006-09-06 09:38:02 · answer #11 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋