beacause my boyfriend and I had a lot of fights today. Things got really ugly between us. It pains me to see how impatient and belligerent we are toward each other...
Should I give up or give him another chance to abuse me?
2006-09-06 02:09:31 · 42 answers · asked by angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello! Dump his abusive a**. He'll never change. Obviously, the two of you are not bringing out the best in each other so maybe it's time to end it. There are plenty of guys out there who will treat you like a princess.
2006-09-06 02:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by yumyum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the reason behind which made you guys fight ....Sweety let me tell u something relationships aren't in our hand ...it's all our destiny ... if you guys are made for each other then ofcourse you guys will b together at the end no matter what happens right? and if you guys arent made for each other then if not this time next time someting gonna happen again which might make u guys seperate...... as u said things got reli ugly between u guys then give some time to see how is it going ..if the situation is getting worser then it's better for u to b hurt for sometime rather than forever ( if u r carrying on ) so time will talk .. it all depends on time so time is gonna tell ... Just cheer up u only got one day in a year for birthday so it's ur special day and cheer up keep it aside and enjoy with ur friends .......so dun decide at the moment whether u shud give him another chance or abuse u ..just wait n see the situation and last but not least HAPPPYYY BIRTHDAYYYY ...wish u all the best in every part of ur life
2006-09-06 02:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by gurl_typical 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday!
Don't let the fights you have had spoil your day go out paint the town red after all it is your birthday!!
By the way if a guy cannot respect you and if he has no patience there is a good few warning signs.
I am not telling you what to do but if a relationship brings you more pain that good times you need to quit it.
Chin up and try to enjoy the rest of your day!!
2006-09-06 02:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by ambidextrous25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday!
2006-09-06 02:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by OC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well happy birthday first of all! It is entirely ur decision but i wud suggest that today as the last day of the year, you shud make some gud decisions that give u happiness. And on top of your list shud be to give up and start a brand new day, a brand new year tomorrow all by urself. it is no use being with someone who cud not make you happy on ur b'day. everyone fights but birthday becomes an exception in most of the cases( or in case of wise people!). Don't waste your last moments of your special day today.... Give urself a hug, love urself and promise urself that you will start afresh tomorrow. I know it is hard but it wud be wise....
2006-09-06 02:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mooch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday, don't let him spoil your day, don't let him abuse you ever again, today is the first day of the rest of your life, so get out there and have some fun, l would come but there is a distance problem, get some friends and go party, forget about him and find a new love.
2006-09-06 02:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I don't know what time it is in China but, if you lived here you could start your whole day over again, as it is only 8:00 AM. Hay! You could do that anyway! HAPPY BIRTHDAY! You are special! Celebrate yourself! Forget about your troubles today. Just throw them away...start a new year with joy in your heart. Here's to you, little lady!
2006-09-06 02:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by fishermanswife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me try to bring a beautiful smile on your face by greeting you on your Birthday...
MANY HAPPY RETURN OF THE DAY from this entire community.. Dont fee that you are alone.. We are all with you.. Cheers!!!!
Now there must be some reasons why you had a quarrel with him.. This is not advisable to give up..
Never take any decision especially when you are ANGRY... Just postpone it for next day.. And you will feel amazing to watch yourself taking completely different decision which will generally be better than the one which you were going to take theprevious day...
2006-09-06 02:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about all of the happy things you have in your life, and don't focus on this situation. Your boyfriend obviously has no respect for you if he's going to pick a fight on your birthday.
2006-09-06 02:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what is going on in your life try not to miss a moment of it. Whether you stay with you boyfriend or not try to enjoy nature, your family and friends, you food, entertainment, pets, etc, etc. There are many good things in your life already if you only take the time to notice. As you become more aware of these things you will become more aware of yourself hence intuitively know what next steps you need to take in your life. Best of Wishes : )
P.S. Happy happy happy Birthday ; : )
2006-09-06 02:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋