i've been in my with my girlfriend fot 2 years until recently she said she wanted to take a break. i love her but i'm not going to wait my whole life for her. but i will wait until she thinks she is ready again. so any tips or experiences anyone has been through
thanks
2006-09-06 02:05:13 · 12 answers · asked by BOOM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what r u waiting for???? sometimes people takes a break from their relationship to discover thereselves. to make sure that they want to go to another level. if she needs her space, give it to her. and this would be a great time for you also. best of luck to the both of you. if it's true love, it's worth waiting for...take the time...
2006-09-06 02:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by justmenothinelse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you guys been on a break? It really depends on why she wanted a break in the first place. Maybe she needs time to think about the relationship and to figure out where she wants the relationship to go. I would give her a week or two, and see what happens then. If she doesn't say anything to you, you should ask her what's going on and what's going to happen.
2006-09-06 02:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually sat down and talked to her and found out why she thinks she needs a break from your relationship.. is it because she is interesting in someone else or because you were getting to intense for her to deal with.. don't go to fast . but the only way you will figure out what or how long you are going to have to wait on her is to sit and talk to her about her reasons.
did she include seeing others for a while or what?
you need to talk to her and make your decision from there.
how old are you? she may not be ready for the relationship and you will probably want to move on.. sorry about that but talking is the only way to figure out what to do .. don't just sit there. after all you are saying that you love her..
2006-09-06 02:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start dating other girls immediately, she can take her time and come back when she's ready, chances are she's going to date other guys so you should do the same, maybe it will even scare her that you're seeing other women and she'll come back immediately. The thing about love is that just because you love someone doesn't mean you're right together. Don't be hesitant to move on if you need to.
2006-09-06 02:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you didn't mention on how long a break it has been. If you luv her and have been seeing her for 2 yrs why did she want one? Maybe she wants you to commit more fully are you ready too? Or she is tired of you and wants more then a break but is not sure or afraid to tell you so.
2006-09-06 02:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you extremely could desire to verify grammar, yet once you broke up together with her now it would be heartless. all human beings has have been given subject concerns and that i locate it pathetic that because of the fact she has some subject concerns you will possibly smash up together with her. you need to be supportive and help her and in case you cant try this I dont think of you have a destiny with any woman. If shes in no way going out you ever theory she doesnt choose for to, doesnt sense like it, no longer a going out individual or theres a greater physically powerful reason e.g. you act like an a s s once you's pass out.
2016-12-14 19:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by flanary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good sign. Give yourself a mental 3 months while looking for another girlfriend. I would not count on this one working out. Seems like some insecurity going on here. Get out there and have fun. You can do that without her ya know.
2006-09-06 02:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by perplexed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart tells you, do you want this girl to be the wife of yours, the mother of your childs, will you love her every morning, her face, do you want to wake up next tio her for a long long period of time? dont let love ran out on you, if this is the case. or move on if the need is not that urgent yet, keep, me posted, real love its hard to come by. does she like another guy, in this case move s l o w ly away from her. is she waiting for you to propose? is she the marriing type, or does she laugh at this tought. love its only one, desire its every thirty seconds. what do YOU want?
2006-09-06 02:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by fellinitj 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe shes not as happy as u are in this relationship so let her go and when shes ready im sure shell come back for now dont wait around for her she might not come back and u wud of wasted so much time waiting for her...
2006-09-06 02:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm when a woman say she wants a break its either because she has found someone better or she has met someone that she thinks might lead to something more....let her go.....remain her friend, if you see that she is becoming more distant, let her go......and dont look back.
2006-09-06 02:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋