my gf used to be all over me but now she just lies there. and In fact she once pushed me off saying those supposedly male words "I don't care, I've got mine"
2006-09-06 01:49:14 · 17 answers · asked by seamie_t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nb. i do love her and she won't go for other positions cos that involves work
2006-09-06 01:56:37 · update #1
You can't change a person's attitude to anything - especially sex. There might be something on her mind that you don't know about. For example, she could be stressed at work or something is bothering her about the relationship. By all means set up situations where she can be all over you again but really, I think you need to talk to her... Afterall sex isn't the basis of a good relationship. if this lack of bedroom gymnastics is putting a strain on your relationship with your partner, then i think it is time to move on!
2006-09-06 01:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by brumbeep 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your girlfriend isn't worthy of your attention. Her "pull my nightdress down when you've finished" kind of attitude clearly indicates that the spark has well and truly gone from your relationship. She's selfish and mean. Sex is all about give and take. It isn't about her getting what she wants and then pushing you away. In a loving relationship sex should be followed by cuddles, pillow talk and closeness. Don't put up with it
2006-09-06 02:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by trog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, she actually says that. Hmmm....
Try putting the spice back into thing like trying new positions and trying out some things you've both talked about. May help get things back on track, or just talk to her about it and see what's up.
2006-09-06 01:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hy gay partners daviie and steeevie , first of all how long have you two been doing the big bang in bed hons?? and is the fireworks geting tired , buring out doing the big bang in bed hons?? it sounds like your girlfriend is running around cheating hons maybe another man secretly hons?? or are you doing it with other bimbos?? it sounds like she is totally bored with you and is ready too move on too grenerr pastures, when she just lays around, and says i got mine it means she has some body else in mind, shes doing the big bang with, she is say look i dont care if you hit the highway, clearly its over with, for you move on downe the lonely highway, its over with thats life the big bang is over with hons!1
2006-09-06 02:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot. Only she can change her attitudes. You can set up the situation to allow this, but she must find it within herself to see her attitude is hurtful and destructive
2006-09-06 01:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont know about 'changing attitude' maybe look at changing GF...
2006-09-06 01:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by junio130 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd drop her like a hot coal,,,,,it will only get worse from here, chuck her and get yourself a new girlfriend, better in the long run.
GoodLuck
2006-09-06 01:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be try small changes then move on to bigger things or have a heart to heart!
2006-09-06 02:12:49 · answer #8 · answered by sandra+3... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow dude, that sucks. I'd venture to say that you might "get yours" first the next time. Then remind her what she said the last time after you wipe your D on her panties and toss them to her.
2006-09-06 01:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
perhaps she feels that the only time you pay her any attention is when your ready for sex. we like to feel loved and special all the time, not just when you have an itch that needs scratching, if you know what i mean!
2006-09-06 01:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋