Going to call someone to see if there's a possibility of a second date. Should the phone call be quick and to the point (I had a great time, we should do it again)? Or more involved and lengthy? I know usually the first phone call is just to set up the first date only but is there such a thing as too short of a phone conversation after that?
2006-09-06 01:42:07 · 6 answers · asked by DR804 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about the second date; call her just because you care enough to talk to her, at all, without ulterior motives. If you can't do that, what's the point of being anywhere with her?
2006-09-06 01:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Love is the principle thing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. There is such a thing as too short of a phone conversation. It might become awkward if you don't wanna talk for very long. Just let it flow, and you'll know the perfect time to ask about a second date.
2006-09-06 08:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by the love guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well make 2 phone calls.. the first today asking just hey I was thinking on you and I would like to know how are u doing.. .. And that's it. (of course during the phone u try to understand if there is happyness from other side to hear u, and what he/she is thinking too...) be smart..
If u feel that the other person is interested in a second date too, well in 2 days you make the second call..to set up the second date..
Good luck..
2006-09-06 08:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by tufty2310 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK for the call to be brief. Just ask her if she would like to go on a date this weekend. (By the way, the deadline for asking for a Saturday night date is Wednesday. This shows respect for her schedule). After you ask and she says "yes", you might want to chat for a minute about a new movie that is showing and if she would like to see it. Then just go ahead and wrap up the conversation if you like.
2006-09-06 08:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should be longer.tell how the first date was,tell whats great bout the other,see when there free again,then ask them if they want to go on a second date if she/he seems intersted in u.the second call shouldnt be to short like longer then 5 min
2006-09-06 08:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by beachsides_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the phone call and see how it goes. Don't create rules and play games. Just call her.
2006-09-06 08:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by pixiechick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋