When I say Love, I mean real love, where you want to spend your life and time with this person? And you can not choose between the two??? And what will help you make your choice in the end?
2006-09-06 01:32:25 · 32 answers · asked by Akia A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can love lots of people, but a lifelong love that we find, or like I found, could never be compared to another love. I thought I'd loved before, but the love I share with my hubby is exclusive and there's no better feeling in the world!
2006-09-06 01:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by pixiechick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you want to spend your life and time with two people? At the same time? How forgiving are they when you make a mistake? Try cooking a meal for each of them (separately) but make sure you do something wrong so that it doesn't turn out quite how it should and see how they each react. That should take you a long way down the path of making the right decision.
2006-09-06 01:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't think you are in love with both of them. I think you love one spiritually and the other one you just 'love' for sex... as harsh as that sounds. I think you have 3 options:
1. your need to either choose between them
2. carry on doing what you are doing and hurt them and yourself
or
3. move on from both of them and have neither!
Hope this helps... Good luck with decision making!
P.s. Don't get in this situation again! It's not good!
2006-09-06 01:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by brumbeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it certainly is possible. But that decision is up to you. Find out which one you can see yourself growing old with, which one treats you good, which ones LOVES YOU, which one would make a great father. Lastly...you know you love him if you would wipe his @ss if both of his arms were broken. Answer those and you will find the one you want to be with!
2006-09-06 01:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by jessigirl00781 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You clearly are eat up with selfishness. Sounds like you have no respect or love for either one of them. How can you claim to even remotely care if you're unable to commit to either? What is love without commitment? A BIG NOTHING that's what
2006-09-06 01:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by Love is the principle thing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. It's just being selfish and wanting all of the goodies for yourself.
I think your choice will be made for you. You can't give an adequate amount of attention to satisfy both of these people.
2006-09-06 01:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! You can only be in love with one person and be fascinated by the other. It is something you will work out in the end. You will know
2006-09-06 01:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bold question indeed............ but Sweet Lady or U Gentleman........
It is quite possible but u have to spend ur life with partner or else the life of all three of u be ruined........... and possibly 4, if the third has a partner.....
So be practical in life...... live life with ONE and enjoy it with EVERYBODY ... :-)
2006-09-06 01:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by guy saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
Just like you can love two cars or two anythings equally.
2006-09-06 01:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, the only analogy I can think of is if you have two pets (say dogs) it's not hard to love them both.
2006-09-06 01:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋