2006-09-06 01:06:12 · 24 answers · asked by Mac me right 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i hate it cause it takes away from finding a man for my self, i spent 7yrs on a booty call, and i hope never to go back
2006-09-06 01:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that woman have a need to feel safe during sex so that they are able to relax and enjoy it
In order to do that you need to be able to trust the person you have sex with. it is not really possible to build trust for somebody you have just met that evening. I think this is why a lot of women prefer sex within the confines of a relationship, be that deeply rooted in love...or if "casual" founded on mutual respect and friendship.
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2006-09-06 08:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by lady_sephie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are too posessive. They know ok if this guy and I are just "having sex" than he probably is with others. Women like to be numero uno in a man's life and to feel that they are "special" to him. Not, that she's having to share him with whomever is available to him on a particular day. Women put too much pressure on guys. I'm a woman but still lol...I can woman bash right? :P They never give the man time on his own to say "hey I think I like this chick, lemme keep her around" They ask right off the bat what he's looking for, that they don't want to be used on and on. Just go with it, he's fun, you get along...take that and go. I don't think it ever occurred to a woman that if she doesn't put pressure on him and doesnt give demands and expectations after just meeting him that he may actually enjoy her company and may end up wanting an actual monogamous relationship. But if she carries on like an insecure nag then she's going to be used and used again. Have a good time. have the sex, hell if its good and you like him, great. If you feel like you're being used, go grab yourself a boyfriend and sleep with the user guy on side , lol. It's all about having fun. Rome wasnt built in a day ;)
2006-09-06 08:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by ~The Bytch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause with everything that there is to do and try no days, causal sex is just that causal. Trying and experimenting new thing, toys, position is what makes it fun, exciting and keeps you wanting more.
2006-09-06 10:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by sour_apple809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Causal" sex? Did you, perhaps, mean "casual" sex? Have you not considered that sex may be better when one is in a steady relationship where there is mutual care and respect? Alternatively, perhaps it is not women in general, but women you get to meet, so perhaps you need to think about what image you are giving off?
2006-09-06 08:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Philanthropic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because she gets called a sl ut, wh ore, tr amp, ho e, etc and she also gets labeled as an "easy girl". What kind of girl wants to be treated like a piece of meat? Plus, most girls get attatched to the guy they are having sex with. That´s why friends with benefits hardly ever works out!
2006-09-06 08:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like the emotions behind sex, not just the act. We enjoy knowing that the other person has feelings for us and the feeling of being secure in the relationship.
2006-09-06 08:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have known many women who enjoy causal sex but the is still a respect issue. We have our encounter and we remain quiet about it.simple.
2006-09-06 08:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women are more likely to want commitment, so a casual sex relationship is a no-no to them.
2006-09-06 10:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To men sex may not mean anything but to me as a woman sex is something special between a man and a woman who love, trust and respect one another....
It is not just something to pass the time...
2006-09-06 08:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get your best answers for this question by women. I hope you listen to them and I would like to add, if you wait until you're married sex is better at that time.
2006-09-06 08:11:01 · answer #11 · answered by Texan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋