I am not able to forget a girl even after 10 years when i was in High school.
Right now i am working and married.
It happenned recently when i recently found her and exchanged some E-mails.And now it has become tough to work,pass time alone.Whatever i do i see her face around.
Does anybody has any advice for controling such emotions?
She has become a good friend and there are no wrong intentions too but somehow i want her to be near me.Please help.
2006-09-06 00:51:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK. You love your wife, right? This person that you exchanged e-mails with is not the same person that you knew 10 years ago. What I mean is, you have both experienced lots of things and lived separate lives. Are you the same exact person you were in high school? I know that I am not. Also, she is kind of like a symbol of the days when you were free. You had no responsibility and life was totally different. Try to spend more time with your wife. Build more memories with her...the person you are thinking about is a fantasy...you can forget her with a little effort.
2006-09-06 00:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are lying to your self. Your intentions are nothing but wrong even if you won't admit it. You want to have your cake and eat it too. You are torturing your self wondering if there is some way it can work out and nobody gets hurts. That's royal B.S. dude. Stop playing the game before it goes to far. It never, never, never works out. You'll lose the woman who stood by you and then the old Friend will be gone or worse flawed. And there you'll be a moron with no one to lean on trust, or care about you. Get real! Get a life! And get far far far away from her! Never talk to her again throw away all contact information. Realize what you have at home and cherish it.
2006-09-06 01:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Love is the principle thing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start working on your marriage. You feel this way because there's a void in your life that is not being filled by your marriage. Now is the time to turn to your wife and tell her what you need and to ask her what she needs. Re-kindle your relationship with your wife. Think of this as an alarm clock for your marriage.
2006-09-06 00:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a friend of mine did the same thing and found success if not in forgeting that person but at least in controlling the intensity of the distracion he was facing.....imagine your spouse to be that friend at all times including love making and some how things would seem better than before.....and as they say time is the ultimate healer.....
2006-09-06 00:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the girl not possible........Only thing become more busy with ur work n spend time out with ur frens or any person whose is with u try it out 4 about 6 months to 1 year then u will get used to it n forget but MIND IT DONT THINK OF HER BEFORE SLEEPING IT MAKES A BIG DIFFERENCE WORK OR PLAY SO MUCH THAT U JUST FALL ON UR BED WITHOUT ANY SECOND TAUGHT try it out it works
2006-09-06 00:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by ronit r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude!! I've had the same problem, but in my case we were just sending each other MMS's.does the saying "out of sight,out of mind" mean anything to you, i mean get real you are married, you can't be falling back in love with your high school sweetheart.my advise is just cut all ties with her,erase her from your address book & from your mind.
if you can't do that, just think of all the horrible things she did to you while you were together, i'm sure there are some skeletons somewhere or else you wouldn't have parted in the first place.this advise is sure to work becuase it sure as hell helped me to forget that b***h.
2006-09-06 01:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you are 1 lunch and few beers away from cheating on your wife. Stop all contact with this girl.....and I mean all contact and wait for her to fade away from your mind. Idea number 2 invovlves losing your wife, half your loot and a lousy divorce attorney.
2006-09-06 00:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by Shyguy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jack Daniels
2006-09-06 00:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
UR playing with Fire, back away now.
U need 2 help URself, she's just like any other woman & proberly nothing like she used 2 B all those years ago.
2006-09-06 00:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hunt her down n marry her if u can fr good
or still c her n hw she is as u can realise that it ws a mistake thinking abt her n there is someone else whos perfect fr u
2006-09-06 00:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by psycadelic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋