how and where did u meet ur partner?what attracted u to them?

Answer 1

I met my wife in the 8th grade. I was attracted to her always seeming to be happy. She was also an intelligent girl. We never dated in school because I thought she was out of my league. Little did I know that she had a crush on me. We started dating after she crashed my high school graduation party. We married 4 years later and will be celebrating our 21st anniversary later this month.

Answer 2

I met my partner through a girl I was chatting to at the time online. We became close friends and are a couple now. I was attracted to her initially from her personality and the impression of a strong fun loving woman that she is, and always has been since we met. She is a beautiful woman inside and out.

Answer 3

We met through work. Got chatting on the phone and agreed to meet him for a coffee. Thought he had a lovely gentle voice and couldn't wait to meet him. Had no idea what each other looked like - it was a complete blind date! He told me that I sounded so nice on the phone he had to meet me. The attraction for both of us was instant. The first time I saw him I was stunned ... he was so tall, dark and very handsome. He had the most gorgeous deep brown eyes I'd ever seen (in fact, I remember thinking his eyes were like melted molasses - yes, I know it's cringeworthy!), the cheekiest smile and was a total stud muffin! That was last July. I moved in with him at the beginning of February this year and our life together is going from strength to strength. He's a kind, sweet, thoughtful, gentle, erotic, sexy guy, and I know in my heart he's my soul mate

Answer 4

The first time I met him he was my boyfriends best friend. We had a little thing going on behind by boyfriends back.
I eventually got married and lost track of him. I moved out of state. He found another girl.
Just met him a few months ago. We are both single now, so we picked up where we left off 10 years ago.
What attracted me to him? He is just totally hot. And so funny. He treats me great too. Should have married him. Not his friend.

Answer 5

Nearly 3 years ago, some folks at church recruited me to the choir, saying, 'Oh, come along, you'll have a good time and meet new people!' (See, I'd just started attending there recently). I thought, this ought to be interesting, I bet they have no idea what they're getting themselves into...

Let's say I have an obviously trained voice, so when I showed up for that first rehearsal and started warming up, it did indeed create a bit of a sensation. And then I found out that the choir doesn't sing every week, so I figured, hey, why don't I do some solos on the 'off weeks'?

So I go up to the choir loft after the service, and this little, vaguely hobbit-like man with a large, square face and a hairstyle evidently designed to hide a bald spot emerges from behind the organ. He was clearly not expecting anyone to visit; indeed, it was obvious just from looking at him that he spends a LOT of time alone up there...

So, I outline my proposal to him and we agree I will speak to the pastor about it. In the end, we ended up bringing in Baroque violins and even a viola da gamba. The violins came and went, the oboes and flutes came and went, the trumpet came and went, but the viola da gamba and the harpsichord/spare organ stayed, and most importantly... we stayed.

And we turned into an ensemble, and in a couple of months' time we will God willing perform our third anniversary concert (which also more or less coincides with my birthday).

Now, at a certain moment, our gamba player wanted to do a recital. Since I am the chief handmaiden, when no one else has time to organize things, that means I end up doing it.

So, the magic moment came one day when - yet again - we'd gotten locked in the choir loft together after the service, and I was waiting for him to get the keys and come downstairs to unlock the gate.

And when he arrived, we got talking, and then he shyly asked if he could give me some suggestions on how to organize that concert. And proceeded to teach me pretty much from A to Z how to do it.

And we were sitting on the wall by the gate, and there was about 6 inches of snow on the ground, and it was the Sunday before Christmas, and we kept talking, and... finally it came time to say goodbye. And as I was saying goodbye, it finally dawned on me - he does have a handsome face, doesn't he?

Fast forward: That and other concerts came and went, more and longer conversations came and went, and now they can no longer assume he'll be up in the choir loft after the service - he might well be going out with 'The Gang' for lunch after our performance. He's no longer trying to hide that bald spot - and I don't care, because what hair he does have, is beautiful...

And yeah, we lock ourselves in the choir loft during the week from time to time, no one there to gossip about us, just us and God, and we talk for hours. And we even talk about love. Indeed, his name in our language (Polish) sounds almost exactly like the word for love. And you know what? I don't think that's an accident...

He's my gentle, wise and sweet friend whom I love because I chose to love him. I mean, sure, I did 'fall in love with him' (and I fell hard too) maybe just under three months after that first meeting, but at the time, I was living the life of a happy old maid who doesn't really have a place in her life for one man in particular. I had to choose to make a place for him...

I told him that once, and he said, 'So I really mixed things up for you then, didn't I?' And I smiled and said, with a twinkle in my eye, 'Yeah, but I don't think that was at all a bad thing...'

Answer 6

Over the net, it was the looks and the accent. I'm a firm believer that looks are an important factor in attraction. I know people say personality but across a crowded room it's not a personality that you see straight away.

Answer 7

I met him the first day of school my sophomore year in french class. It was also my first day at that school, and he was the first guy that struck up a conversation with me. We didnt start going out till a year later, and now here we are still together 4 years later.
The thing that attracted me to him was the way he portrayed himself. He was confident, and humorous, and he made sure i felt comfortable at my new school. I guess that just means he was a good friend to me first, he took care of me.

Answer 8

I already knew my partner his kids attended the school i taught at .. then when he got divorced bout 6 mths later he was in pub and was last orders he had a bottle of smirnoff ice and he couldnt drink it asked me to finish it and the rest is history .

Answer 9

NO PARTNER AS YET so no question of attraction
but i found ur question attractive thats why answering

Answer 10

I worked with a lot of women at this place...they were all easy lays except one..because of that i became really attracted to her and we ended up marrying.....so i suppose at the end of the day, if a guy is looking for long term committment he doesnt look at the easy lay girls.