I am in love with this guy, and although we were together for 9 months, we spent every waking moment together, only once we spent 5 days apart. He is my true love, I know it sounds ridiculous, I was skeptic in love too, but he changed me. But our different religious beliefs and racial background are stopping us from having the future we want. And even though we broke up, and I met someone new, I still think of him constantly and I know I love him more truly than I ever did before. What can I do?
2006-09-06 00:26:54 · 30 answers · asked by duchess_slayer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even i lost my true love after being together for 2 years... and now i am engaged tos omeone else... It hurts me a lot and i feel guilty of spoiling 3 lives, mine, my love's and my fiancee's... Moreover, i feel like killing myself for doing all this and am unable to bear the pain of separation with my love... I recommend you don't move on.. just be focussed on marrying your love and spending rest of life together...
2006-09-06 00:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know exactly how you feel and it is darn hard! There is nothing wrong with remembering the wonderful moments you had with him. It seems it is out of your (and his) control you both can't be together. Let the happy memories remind you that life is a joyous experience. Don't let those moments stop you from enjoying what you have now. He will always be in your heart. Just don't shut the door on something wonderful that life is offering you now. Live each moment by moment and everything will be alright :-)
2006-09-06 00:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough. Religious differences is probably one of the toughest situations to deal with in a relationship. The sad fact is, it usually will not work out. You have your spiritual convictions and he has his own. Neither one of you should try to change that in each other. If you can only learn to accept that you have different beliefs and allow yourselves to learn from one another, not to change but just to learn, than maybe you can have a chance. IF this is your true love, you will never cease to think of him.
2006-09-06 00:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by fadingn2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion and racial backgrounds can be volatile points of conflict, but they aren't impossible to overcome. Are you willing to put in the hard work it takes to overcome them? And furthermore, are you willing to accept defeat if it doesn't work out despite all your efforts? Love is wonderful but can only go so far in a relationship- the rest is hard work, sacrifice, and compromise. If that's a road you want to go down, then get him back. If not, then cry a good cry and move on.
2006-09-06 00:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you care so much of having different background, then you better don't think of him and try to move on. If you think race is so important in love and that you can not be with smb belonging to other religion and race, it means you don't want him in your future, so don't take his present just for your feeling better for the moment.
2006-09-06 00:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No i think of it is the financial secure practices that he get fom u and ur stupidity thT hel proceed to be straightforward it is preserving u jointly. Sorry tht became into harsh, yet it is basically my effect. He seems to be very immature. U look lik a candy extreme-high quality female...there are different greater mature fish in the sea who will handle u lots better. leave him.
2016-10-14 09:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him back..religion you can find a common ground--people from different religons get married everyday--and dont let something as stupid as racial backgrounds be a reason to keep you apart-you know better than that
2006-09-06 01:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you keep trying if you know you can't have him? That doesn't even make any sense. I know it's easier said than done, but it's time to move on and find someone else.
2006-09-06 00:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well even if he is your true love
something is missing
so like true love
is not so true if you can never be with him
You must put God first before any relationship
No one can help you but God
ask for the grace to become strong in all this
look to it as a learning process
do not dwell on this to where you become sick
2006-09-06 00:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you allow "racial & religious" beliefs to separate you, then you both deserve to be lonely.
If he is the right one, make it work!
2006-09-06 00:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋