theirs this girl that i really like and i want to be with her.but she dont want a bf at the moment . and im nothing more then a good friend to her. i know its hard but what can i do to try and change her mind
2006-09-06 00:17:28 · 10 answers · asked by st.pool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't try to change her mind. If she is at all interested in going to a different level with you, you will surely let you know as she already knows how you feel towards her. If you try to change her mind, you may end up pushing her away and you lose a good friend. You shouldn't spread yourself so thin at this time either, by becoming obsessed in trying to change her. Move forward with dating other girls, she may come around then, when someone else shows interest, be careful not to hurt the other person though. Who knows, you may find you like the other person more.
2006-09-06 00:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to change her mind a women's mind is far too complex and it will never work!
Just be cool with her ask her to go to the pictures for a drink etc but just as buddies, hang out etc, if she likes ya she will eventually come round to your way of thinking!
2006-09-06 07:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um. dont try to change her mind because, there is obvousily a reason why she doesnt want a boyfriend, stress, family, lots of reasons, its probably for the best. all you can do is say you love her, or really like her, and just wait, and if it takes too long, its not meant to be, so then that would be the time to move on!!! ~good luck~
2006-09-06 07:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When will people(men,boys) learn that you can't force change on someone. You can't make someone change their mind. Stop trying to control her and move on.
2006-09-06 07:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain her friend and just wait for the right moment.
2006-09-06 07:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ocean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot change her mind,just be her friend for the time being.
2006-09-06 07:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u love her and without her u can't live even one day and every time u see her give her a flower
2006-09-06 07:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by milad m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea,it's hard & that's why you want her!HaHa!
2006-09-06 07:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect her wishes or ask if she just wants sex...
2006-09-06 07:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u guys?
2006-09-06 07:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋