whatever happen to decent romantic intelligent men?

Question

?????????????????????????

Answer 1

I'm decent and intelligent, succesful and handsome, brought up well with plenty of monetary resources, young and full of stamina, have a great sense of humour and willing to please a woman in any way I can.

Yet I'm not very romantic, so I'm not good enough right?

Women always want what they perceive that they can't have or what doesn't exist untill they get it and then they change their minds! They haven't gone anywhere honey, they just saw you coming! Lol, only joking...

Answer 2

There are certainly still some very decent romantic men around;however its getting beneath the exterior superficial level that is the tricky bit.generally the guys who push themselves forward are the players,the liars and cheats,they talk the talk but don't back it up with actions.
The decent romantic guy will be less pushy but genuine in what he tells you;so here is the dilemma,ascertaining who is genuine and who is an actor.
Men should treat you as an equal with consideration and compassion,there should be love,passion and fun but there must be understanding and empathy.
I read about a survey carried out in the USA where they asked people to list the most untrustworthy people in society,the top three were 3.Politicians 2.Lawyers and 1.Actors all male dominated but it is being able to find the actors out that is the trick.A genuine guy will go out of his way to prove himself to you where as the actor will be sure his performance(looks,personality,charisma) will be enough to persuade you he is the one !
Good luck in finding yours !

Answer 3

The male stigma has driven most into hiding, whereas a time was when love poems, random gifts and chivalrous acts were common place, now it is viewed as such negatives as being "whipped", whimpy or the ever feared homosexual. Many guys are afraid of popular opinion and their reputations being tarnished by displaying a romantic and intellectual side. But the rewards are well worth it, true courage is not being who you are expected to be, rather to be who you truly are. Just have faith that there is someone waiting to sweep you off your feet and hope they find the courage to let their true self shine.

Answer 4

They're either taken, or quite upset they can't find a decent, intelligent and romantic girl anymore.

Answer 5

They are out there .. its just finding the right one for you.

Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel

Answer 6

We're all hiding over here, wandering where all the romantic, intelligent women are!

Answer 7

There is a beautiful, creative, smart, romantic and funny man (beyond my wildest imagination), worthy of my undivided attention.
He's around here somewhere, and I intend to keep him within my sights until I can cast appreciative eyes in his direction.
The poetry in my soul dances like a dervish because of him, and I cannot construct my adoration of him into words...

Answer 8

They have all run for cover after being abused in divorce courts by vicious, lawyers, power abusing judges and exwives bent on destroying the man physically, emotionally and financially.

Answer 9

Here I am. Writing poetries. Givin presents for only it is Tuesday. Calling only to say that i love u. I loveU and I LOVE UUUUU

Answer 10

We are still around and avaliable, just a little cautious as most of us have been used but not used up.