i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months and i am totally in love with him. i have in the past told him how much i care about him but he says that he hates all that sort of talk but really really like me alot he just had bad experiences before and does not want to rush anything. am i rushing into things?
2006-09-06 00:00:33 · 15 answers · asked by lula 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
COZ THEY R DUMB!
2006-09-06 00:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by shona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men sometimes can't let go of the past and as a result this interferes with the future. Because of previous bad experiences he's holding back, not because he doesn't feel the same way about you but because he's scared of being hurt again. I think that women are far more open when it comes to expressing their feelings. The old saying "time is a great healer" is certainly true, and hopefully in your relationship as time passes so will his insecurities thus enabling him to be open about his feelings for you. Hope this helps
2006-09-06 01:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by trog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Wish I Knew What Go's On In Men's Minds They Are Very Strange Coz They Think Different To Us Women!
2006-09-06 01:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to say that u are rushing wud not be right. Perhaps the guy's past experiences are still holding tight. In my view, u should frequently remind him that u love him, but should also give him enough space to feel free of his past.
2006-09-06 00:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by helloall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i have in the past told him how much i care about him but he says that he hates all that sort of talk..."
Don't tell him, show him. Nothing says love to a guy more than a Craftsman 1 gal. 1/2 hp Compressor with 2-in-1 Nailer/Stapler.
2006-09-06 00:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Holden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not after 9 months I don't think so.
Men generally are afraid of commitment - it means they don't ever get to sleep with another woman. Though some do anyway regardless of whether they're committed or not.
My now ex partner didn't want to commit to me so I left him. I can only rely on myself. I don't need someone to mess me around.
2006-09-06 00:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mum-Ra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's had his heart broken in the past. The problem is that men, although they'll vehemently deny it, are much more sensitive than women. The problem with women being that they have no heart.
2006-09-06 00:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 months rushing ??
after I met my now wife we were living together after 2 weeks, engaged after a few months and married in 18 months,, we have been married 20 years now, he either loves you or he does not....
2006-09-06 00:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by banditblue1200 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to the elements of time,the spontaneous moments that dictates the action thats it,maybe at that moments maybe he is expressing by lips to lips to you ,the silence continue then the bed thats it ,he maybe hard to express the feeling with you but the action speak.
2006-09-06 00:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by mario t. reoyan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are too reserved and sometimes they feeel its too womanish to talk about their feelings. some people might take this as being rejection but it simply something man are born with
2006-09-06 00:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u are not. dont worry it just his way of deeling with things.
we get scared sometimes in case we get rejeted.
in time he will start telling u more.
stay strong for him.
go and be happy
takecare
xxxxx
2006-09-06 00:06:10 · answer #11 · answered by alan h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋