i was walking in the park and some guy was looking at me like i was a easy. another guy at a store gave me a nasty remark that i wont even repeat.
2006-09-05 23:44:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And i know lots of females who dress conservatively who are complete sluts.
one girl at work dresses like a lady but she has a side job at a topless bar.
2006-09-05 23:59:42 · update #1
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2006-09-05 23:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by El Gringo 237 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My question to u is why are u dressing that way? Are you looking for attention? Cuz if u are, ur only gonna get the wrong kind of attention like u are now. People are very judgemental and think just because u dress a cetain way must mean ur easy or a hoe. The only thing I can suggest is tone down ur dress alittle. Dont show so much, besides I have heard that men prefer leaving a little to the imagination anyways. Someday something bad might happen just because ur dressed a certain way. Dont change who u are, just change a few items of clothing and not show so much and u will be respected more. Good luck
2006-09-06 06:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by scorpio2644865 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say all men look at provocativlu dressed womenas easy, but men are more visually stimulated then women. Provocative dress does have a tendency to cause men's minds to wander inot erotic areas, including what it might be like to be intimate with you. This, however, is no excuse for being rude which is one of the kinder things I can call the behavior you describe. Guys, no matter what's going on in our little minds, we can still act like adults when approaching a lady, no matter how she's dressed. Put the drooling, bug eyes and wolf whistles on hold.
2006-09-06 07:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by orangevike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel you have to dress this way? Woman are beautiful the less they show. Not to mention that if you are wearing clothes that are not for your body type you are going to look foolish and they are going to say things to you. So if you are a 20 year old V why wear clothes that give out a different message? You are 20 not 16. Guys want a girl that they can bring home to momma and show off a good example of a woman.
2006-09-06 06:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its sad, but there are prejudices in this world that unfortunately guide how most people think. But if you do dress provocatively, most guys are thinking more skin showing=less clothes to take off. Like it or not, guys think about sex about 80% of the time he looks at a girl. the other 20% consists of "oh no not (insert female relative here)" or, "eeesh, try some makeup" If i were you, tone down the clothes a little, but not so much as to tun guys off.
2006-09-06 06:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by tazman2087 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see, however, not majority of boys feel that way.
Here are some tips:
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettiness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. All the best to u.
2006-09-06 06:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the answer lies within your question. To dress provocatively means to serve or tend to provoke, excite or stimulate. Always remember...less is more. Give the guys a chance to use their imagination instead of lying it all out for them to see. There is no mystery in it for them, therefore they will think you are easy. Make them work for it. Not only that, show more pride and respect for yourself.
2006-09-06 06:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is... people DO judge a book by it's cover! If you don't want the negative attention, don't dress that way. And... ask yourself why you feel a need to dress that way. You are sending mixed signals... if you want people to think of you in a certain way, dress and act accordingly.
2006-09-06 06:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad but true, our world judges the book by its cover. If you would like to be respected and taken seriously dress like it. If you like to attract decent men, dress modestly. Do not show much of your flesh- as you say- generally, people will think you are otherwise. So you have to project an image that you want to be seen and related with.... I bet you are still attractive even if you do not dress provocatively.....simplicity is a beauty by itself.
2006-09-06 06:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys are jerks no matter how you dress. If you have fun dressing provocatively then enjoy it. It’s best NOT to dress provocatively at work.
2006-09-09 11:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Scalawag-101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are guys. Dont worry, even if you dressed like a Librarian they would still think something along those same lines.
2006-09-06 06:48:50 · answer #11 · answered by Alisa Lyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋