I have my friend and whom i like it most but she like other person and she want to be remain a just friend of mine without knowing any one. but when i see that she ignore me many a times because that person whom she like most i fell that she hearts me. I had tried many a times to forget her but i cant forget it. so give me a suggestion wht i have to do that from which she attracts to me. and i know definately that she alwyas trying to forget me but she always fails. Because this problem i m getting in a deprresion mood i can thionk except her so wht to do .
2006-09-05 23:12:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Keep being her friend...the longer she gets to know you, the more she might grow to love you...don't pressure her...just be a good friend when she needs you to be..sometimes...you just never know if she will break up with the other guy and you will still be there for her...don't pour your heart out to her and make other friends also...you are in love it sounds,...and love is patient, and enduring...just be a nice guy and you never know what is going to happen.
2006-09-05 23:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Participate in other activities with your friends, and/or try new activities such as sports you have never tried before. Keep busy with friends and don't hesitate to make new friends as well. Visit new places and try new things that is the excitement of life and it's enjoyed the most when you are with a group of friends, it's a lot of fun. Keep open minded to humour, and if you have a great sense of humour, share it! You may be disappointed right now with this girl, but she just wants friendship. As difficult as it may be to accept, it's better you do. The sooner you do, the faster you'll heal from this hurt. Otherwise you are hanging on to false hope and yes that will make anyone depressed. The bright side of all this is your courage was taking a chance someone would like you more, and that can be scary for a lot of people, but it's all part of dating, and this happens often. Don't get discouraged, but just know you tried, it didn't work out, and move on. Ask someone else, there's a lot of girls out there. However, if you find it is still too hard to cope with this, and depression last longer than two weeks, make an appointment to see your doctor and explain your depression. They will help you through it. Hope that helps, good luck,
2006-09-06 06:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sanjay. I can tell you in two words what the problem is: you are love sick. Love sick means that you are obsessed with this woman. She has become something more than just another human being for you. She has started to fill up every space in your world. This is not good because no human being should be put in that place. The more love sick you are, the more you will no longer really love her, but rather, the idea of her. She will become like a gooddess for you. You must put things back in perspecyive. No woman wants a man who chases after her. She is just a person like you. Have the courage to put your mind to other things. Make yourself look at the rest of the world. Break your addiction to the myth of this girl. If she truly is meant for you, it will happen. Otherwise, you are trying to bend all of reality to suit your own fantasies and that never works. In fact, it can only hurt you more.
2006-09-06 06:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens to people in all parts of the Earth. Many of us have been through it. Sorry mate, but she is obviously trying to dump you in a diplomatic way. Women are very good at it! Get out there and meet others, without dumping your problems upon them; they have their own lives to deal with, and you will lose your newfound friends if you try to. It just takes a little time to get over those pleasant memories. Just think of the bad times and smile and try to make others laugh. She is the loser, not you, and don't you forget it.
2006-09-06 06:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by Scrubber 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please stop embarrasing yourself by asking the same question twice but in a different way i know its you who asked 2 different questions but in a different way the word heart is not heart its hurts and its time to give up on this girl who is playing you for a fool. she is just using you as someone to fall back on if her relationship does not work. what kind of person wants to know you as a friend but says dont tell anyone or ignores you when you see each other. she is the idiot here not you and its time you moved on and look for things to do to occupy your time so you stop thinking of her
2006-09-06 07:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand what you are asking, focus on carrying on with life. There are other things that you can do that bring happiness - working on a craft or hobby, talking with others etc.
2006-09-06 07:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Buzz s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a moth to a flame. Watch out baby, you're gonna get burned.
2006-09-06 06:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by Exousia Skotos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TRY TALKING TO HER ABOUT THAT. THAT'S THE MOST U CAN DO.
2006-09-06 06:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by Stella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋