2006-09-05 22:43:23 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
blackmail
2006-09-05 22:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Absinthy 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Have a word with your mate. Seriously, why would a 20 year old be interested in a 14 year old??
Not that I'm saying you sister isn't attractive, but I'm just saying she's not a woman yet. She's probably not physically mature.
He's 20, he's a man, he's probably slept with a few different women already.
It's just not right. He needs a woman of his own age and whilst I know from experience that 14 years old fancy older men, she WILL regret it. She needs to take her time growing up and have fun with boys nearer her own age.
Your mate should respect you and should never have gone near your sister. It's an unwritten rule for most respectable people.
2006-09-05 22:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by Wafflebox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a Mum to 2 girls of my own & 1 foster daughter, I can understand your worry for your sister.....First of all if the age difference of a mere 6yrs was in their 20's, 30's etc then that would not be a worry, but she technically is still a minor, although your sister would most likely contradict you and let you know in no uncertain terms that she is A GROWN UP, therefore delicate handling is needed here. DON'T batter ya mate as has been suggested otherwise your sister will dig her heels in and see him MORE just to put 2 fingers up at you..she will take HIS side. Have a heart to heart with your mate and explain to him the legal side & most important to your sister the respect side of this tate R tate, ASK him to back off until she is of an age that he & she will be legally okay to see each other, put it accross that your worried for him tooo...then chances are that by the time she of legal age he will be very well settled with a woman more his own age....But remember it's him that has got to stop this relationship not you, otherwise your sister will never forgive you.
2006-09-05 23:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Denise W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be encouraged by the 14 year old,as they have strange desires and can`t see reality for what it really is.
He isn't going to do no good to her,no matter how nice he is.
He should be mature enough to talk to her and tell her she is too young and stay well away from her while she has this infatuation about him.
You cant tell her what to do,she is not going to listen,and you will probably end up pushing her more towards him than breaking it up.
She is a teenager with no idea about life and adulthood,where he should have more of an idea.
2006-09-05 22:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by asmoothrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of buddy would do that Ray? Dont allow it man,it AINT right, the age difference wouldnt be a problem in 5yrs or so,she probably is infatuated with him, but he should know better, do NOT allow them to be together on there own, under NO circumstances, pull your "buddy" to one side and explain the situation to him, if he continues with it then suggest you go with the"status qou" good luck dude!! a problem I wouldnt want to have: regards man
2006-09-05 23:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go mad...a 20 year old man with a 14 year old girl..its not medevel times now. I would tell him straight that she is not yet legal to have sex, drink, drive etc. She is still a child and what he's doing is very wrong, if he really likes her tell him to wait until she can at least get adult price at theme parks.
2006-09-05 22:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids grow up way to fast these days,grab your so called buddy round the throat and tell him to let your sister down gently.
2006-09-06 02:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by wayne b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to bugger off, do whatever it takes to end it. She is no way old enough for that kind of relationship. Even if she hates you for it now she'll appreciate it when she's older. Or just sit back and let this guy try to do stuff with her that she's not ready for and wait for the tears, up to you.
2006-09-05 23:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would end what ever little pathetic life that was left in him . When i was done pimping his asz on a street corner in L.A calf.That would be just a start ..14 yrs. old that's like my daughters age. It would not be to much fun i promise
2006-09-05 23:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably ask both of them how they really feel and if they were sure of what they were doing it would be OK..But if he hurt my sister I wouldn't want him as a friend..You should tell him to be careful with her and not play any games or he'll get into troubles...
2006-09-05 22:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by Elli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be mad but i would first talk with my sister. i would tell her what i think and explain to her that this is wrong. i would talk with my buddy too. if they don't listen to me, i will tell my parents and if even that doesn't work, i would call the police. i wouldn't cut his balls of cause violence is not the answer!
good luck
ali shkodrova
2006-09-05 22:58:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋