I am an african girl 30 years of age and have fallen in love with a 24 year old boy.. here in africa, its such a big deal falling for a guy your junior, what do i do since i do not want to let go of him?
2006-09-05 22:35:21 · 21 answers · asked by stelee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Enjoy - - - there is nothing wrong with six year gap and if society gives you c r a p the H e l l with them - - - it is your life not theirs. And truly six year sis NOTHING - - - many of the most successful theatrical romances were older wiser prettier women and their hard working worshipful beaus - - - think Jessica Tandy & Huyme Croyme (which I know I have mispelled), The Lunts and The Marches, Goldy Hawn & Kurt Russell, Susan Sarandon and what his name - - - you get the drift, just have fun you do what you know to be right. Peace.
2006-09-05 22:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Stelle am an African and am married to a woman that is older than me; no talks cos am sure she Loves me; well if he has a bright Future and a good Home why not? but i will Just warn you that even with his age he should be very matured in Handling things; Younger guys might be great expressors of Love if they are matured; as for me b4 i met ma wife i hane always gone out with either ma mates or Older girls so i had a little experience; but u have to be ready to respect him not to be bossy cos of the age difference if not u will not be happy. but if he say something since u love him just do if it went wrong u will now tell him his mistakes. the Major problem here is that most ladies dont humble themselves; Good Luck u will sail through(i believe)
2006-09-05 22:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by segsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help who you fall in love with. It's just an age. My husband is nine years older than me. There is nothing wrong with it you two are both adults live your lives. It's hard to find someone that you truly love hold on don't worry about what other people say or think. You be happy.
2006-09-05 22:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by jenn_burks311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the beginning, 6 years isn't that undesirable an age hollow. in keeping with risk while you're nonetheless in severe college... afterwards it does not be rather some a difficulty. i don't understand how previous you're. you may might desire to be 18 a minimum of in the previous you desperate to bypass like that. genuinely. If he's going away for some years a minimum of you have have been given time to think of roughly it, and in the journey that your relationship does not stand the try of separation, then you definitely'll realize it wasn't to be. element A might desire to be to variety your person existence out first. as much as you may nicely be satisfied now, you may desire to deal with the reality that if he leaves you, you may desire to have your person existence to stay. do not relax each and every thing on him nevertheless, it rather is the thank you to smash your existence.
2016-11-25 00:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age gap is not so wide only 6 years. I say it is within an exceptable level to the society. Your problem is more on his love having on you and also his mature enough to take responsibility. You need to treat him with respect regardless of his junior in age wise.
2006-09-05 22:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe in the power of love. if you truly, really love him with all your mind, body and soul, you can overcome any obstacle. look deep inside your heart, ask yourself the very question: do you want to be with him or not? if your fear in following your country's culture n traditions is stronger than your love for him, then obviously he's not the one, don't you think?
good luck! =)
p.s. for us chinese people, if you're a girl and you've found someone a lot younger than you, it's kind of a big deal too. you'll get gossipped about back and forth.
2006-09-05 22:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does age have to do with how you feel about a person.thats just a number that peopel goes by,older men or younger men are all the same.they love you they respect you and they even send you gifts to show there love,because every one needs somebody to love them and take care of them.
2006-09-05 22:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by bigmomma s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you don't care what other people think of your relationship or break it up. If you truely love the guy and he isn't a child, then who cares what others think? They have business of their own to mind.
2006-09-05 22:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love him and the feeling is mutual.. I dont see any problem...
True love is hard to find and you shouldnt let anybody get in your way...
just do your best not to be affected by anyone else and follow your heart...
2006-09-05 22:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by Diane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your social pressure will ruin the lives of both then forget or else you may go ahead...
2006-09-05 22:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋