My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 9 months...I go away on vacation for 2 weeks and come back to find out that he got married. But I had to find this out through a co-worker. And when I asked him if he was married, he said yes that he got married. We had sex the day before this happened. When I asked him how married life was he said "Its life". I need someone to tell me how and why this has happened!!
2006-09-05 22:22:06 · 16 answers · asked by spider_lily32 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Him and I were at each others house staying the night everyday.....we were always together so when did he have time? On top of that we worked together...the same shift....and when I asked him how this happened so fast he said that he felt pressured into getting married and didnt want to do it...It felt like a shotgun was being held to his head....so what does this mean....Im so confused!!!!
2006-09-05 22:39:48 · update #1
SOunds like a loser that will regret his hastiness...forget him quick.
2006-09-05 22:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunatly the answer is simple. He never loved you, that is for sure. It was sex not love making and there is a big difference between both, sex is a pleasure tool and he was obviously using you.
When it boiled down to a serious commitment, he married someone else.
Why didn't he tell you? GUILT, he wanted to avoid the confrontation because he could not have simply told you sorry, i am in love with someone else and I am getting married to her, yet i very much appreciate the sex!!
He knows he is wrong and has no justification!!
Sorry for the harsh words, but this is your wakeup call.
2006-09-06 05:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by fozio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There may be two reasons , 1 - He could be under pressure from his relatives or from his family , or may be some one from the girl side must be dying and boys parents promised them to take care of their daughter . Some thing really very pressing issue .Or he was engaged earlier and due for marriage with this girl , and to avoide scene with you , never diclosed to you about this pre planned function .
2 - He just want to have gala time with you , thinking you also enjoying his company that way , could be the reason , he never considered you as to be his life partner , that is why he kept quite .
Now please do not get depressed and no option but to forget him forever , God will blessed you strength to forget this sad episode in your life .
2006-09-06 05:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i do'nt know why this happened maybe he was seeing someone behind your back move on honestly can't change that one sounds pretty fast only he can tell u why & how this happened sounds a little dodgey move on get over him & find someone nice i know it hurts but at least think yourself lucky what would he have done if u guys were married so in a way he did u a favour !!!!!! all the best
2006-09-06 05:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by connertyrone2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jerry Springer called. He says that he would be honored for you you, your boyfriend and his new wife to be guest on the Jerry Springer Show. LOL
Seriously, he is a classic cheater. Plain and simple. Now you need to move on and let him be happy with his new wife. Unless of course you like being his piece of a s s on the side.
2006-09-06 05:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause u can only be his gf not a wife...or u were easy access to sex for him so u can be for anyone..
u see guys have diff mentality with who should be a gf and who should be a wife so u cant be a good wife dats why majority girls are single mum.He didnt see the wife charm in you and knew u would end up in divorce .
2006-09-06 05:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, this bloke is taking you for one hell of a ride hunny. get out of there you can do soooooo much better than that. no one deserves to be treated like that although he is obviosely doing to you cause he thinks/knows he can get away with it.
tell him to get lost or you'll tell his new wife that he's been cheating!
2006-09-06 05:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was using you he must of had her a long time be you left town i feel for you that was a bad thing for you to come to sorry hang in good to you again sorry he was not a man lets hope it happens to that dirty dirty rat
2006-09-06 05:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! Honey, you need to ask him! Something like that can only be answered by him. something weird is up with him. strange deal indeed!
2006-09-06 05:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because ur bf's a jerk and he's f*c*ing irresponsible
2006-09-06 05:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by Nora A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋