I know a friend who won't take care of herself and won't exercise for anything. She won't think things through. She just sits at her office because her dad is her boss. She is 30 but still need her maids to take care of her. She never remembers anything. She walks 100 times slower than a snail. We gave advise to her but each time she won't do it. I was shock last time we went to the park with friends, I saw her couldn't walk up to upper stage in the stadium- she was just standing on our back and stand still and being mute. Any advised to help her?
2006-09-05 22:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by chocolatierdream 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
It sounds as though she has problems dealing with reality. My mother is exactly like you're describing your friend. I know my mother has self-esteem issues and suffers from depression. Several times, I have reccommended that my mother go to a psychiatrist if for no other reason than to be put on anti-depressants. My mother absolutely refuses to listen -- that's another one of her symptoms -- the stubborn inability to do anything on her own, but not do anything anyone else suggests either. However, your friend sounds younger than my mother. Perhaps she will listen. Tell her to seek out a psychiatrist.
2006-09-05 22:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Candidus 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds Quite Serious has she always been like this or has she started to behave like that lately. Give her The Homeopathic Remedy SULFUR 30C thrice a day for three or four days and let me know the results. It sounds like lead or aluminum poisoning or something like it, get her checked by a Doctor.
Take Care and God Bless !
2006-09-06 05:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that i think you can really do is just be a good friend and keep pushing her A LOT! really, a good friend shows they care no matter how harsh you are by always saying something. show her and don't tell her what she should be doing for herself. it's ok to work with daddy so daddy could take care of you but daddy can't always hold your hand.
2006-09-06 05:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but there's not much you can do. The first step would be for HER to recognize that she has a problem. Otherwise, why would she want to change? She must have something nice about her, though, why else would you care? Try spelling it out to her, just as you did here, maybe that'll help.
2006-09-06 05:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
then make your friend understand.
take her 2 a place were there r small children without any support.show her the meaning of being alone in the whole world.I think your friend wud bcom a bit ressponsible then.
2006-09-06 05:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by via 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jack LaLanne or Richard Simmons might be able to help. If not, try Billy Blanks.
2006-09-06 05:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Chuck Dhue 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think if I were you I'd learn to make complete sentences and speak proper English before criticizing someone else.
2006-09-06 05:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
she sounds depressed and not very happy,keep being her friend , stop giving her advice ,right now just be a friend
2006-09-06 05:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her fall flat on her face.
A baby can't learn to walk without falling.
2006-09-06 05:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Who are you, her mother? Mind your own business and stop judging her. If you can't accept her the way she is, you are NOT a friend.
2006-09-06 05:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋