I've known a guy for over the last 5 years.we had feelings for each other ,kind of went out ! I started going out with someone else since he never expressed his feelings,never said he loved me or even invite me for a drink ( just the two of us).His friends told me that he was really in love with me,and when i stopped waiting for his move and went for someone ,they are still the ones who told me that he was hurt.
The funny this is whenever i see him (not often), my heart beats so fast that i don't control what i say ,like ,whetever i say doesn't make sense to me ! I like him but at the same time he hasn't changed , i never know what going on in his mind !
2006-09-05 22:05:29 · 14 answers · asked by liza 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say nothing next time...just jump him with a big kiss.
2006-09-05 22:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The least U can do, is to offer him a cup of coffee at a neutral place(Not at your place either his) for instance; the meeting shouldn't be based on your feelings, choose a certain topic and see what his view abt it. Avoid asking him, plz do not do that, let him come out by himself. Bcoz U ain't sure what his friends were saying it's true, U must verify if his heart beats as faster as yours. Plz dont start expressing your feelings dear U may end up disapointed (Dont wish U that!). Some men are a bit shy to talk abt their feelings, but dont be suprise if he takes time before he tells U about his bottom heart. Be patience and don't brusk him at all.
2006-09-05 22:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by benird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just ask him straight out - you can always blame his mates and be like that they kinda told you about how he felt about you and you were just wondering was it true? Life is too short to waste opportunities like this hun - if your heart beats faster etc etc its pretty obvious you're in love with him! Dont let this pass you by - chances are you're both to frightened to say it in case the other doesnt reciprocate it - take the chance - Im sure it will pay off. Best of luck!
2006-09-05 22:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are shy to express his feelings or let their feelings known. Probably either being afraid of disappointment or rejection so in this case if you really like to have him as your bf then don't be afraid to be the one who makes the first move. Then you will know is he the right guy for you.
2006-09-05 22:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is terminally shy (or married). He's probably afraid of rejection. Sit down and decide how much you want this guy. Ask HIM out for drinks or something if he's a keeper. You'll have to be the aggressor. Tell him how you feel and ask him whether he feels the same.
Good luck!
2006-09-05 22:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on what goes on in your own heart and mind and act on it.
Believe me, you shouldn't be with a man who cannot express his feelings if you are an inherently emotional being. You may love him but it just won't work...you cannot be responsible for anyone elses feelings, and you should make sure you take responsibility for your own...
2006-09-05 22:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by CC...x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you have a very fond feelings for him , go and take his hand and kiss him tightly , as he is very shy and reserved in nature , he will love you more than that forever .
2006-09-05 22:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that one day, before the end of the world, one of you will go to the other and tell what he or she is feeling.
2006-09-05 22:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by The GunnJack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this does not happen to me. why dont u ask him personally if he have feeling for you or if he love you. then if his ans is yes you wont be so confuse. all the best
2006-09-05 22:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by yeron ng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously feel something for him give it a chance talk to him let him know you have been thinking of going out etc..
2006-09-05 22:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋