i am 17 years youngstar.i love a girl who lives in my locsl area.she was in my scool.i have never talked to her.sometimes i talk to her freind.whenever i see her she also look at me with same passsion.this shows that she is interested in me.but she does not show it .i think i am in real love .help me .how can i gather courage to talk to her or propose her?
2006-09-05 21:54:17 · 6 answers · asked by anthrax 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you want to do is to spend some time with her. So ask her out on a date. Try not to get nervous. Think of what you're going to say ahead of time so that you appear confident. Girls love confidence in a guy. Try to think of something a little romantic for your date.
If you have a plan of what you want to say to her and what you want to get out of it (you want her to know that you like her and you want to be able to spend time with her) then it'll be easier for you to do. Just prepare yourself one day, take a deep breath, approach her, smile, tell her she looks really pretty and then ask her if she'd like to go out with you sometime. If she says yes, then tell her you were thinking of maybe a picninc/walk and ice cream/or whatever else you decide to do, and ask her if a specific day is good for her (like "next Saturday at 2:00 pm for example). Then walk away knowing that you've gotten the hardest step out of the way.
I'm not trying to confuse you here or have you worrying more...so here are a few tips:
- Don't take her to a movie for the first date because you won't be able to talk to each other for two hours, so it'll be hard to get to know her.
- Don't take her to a really expensive restaurant either.
- I'm not sure what exactly you mean by "propose", but if you mean marriage, do not ask her that yet. Don't tell her you love her. Instead, tell her you really like her.
- Maybe you can ask her if you can take her out for ice cream and turn it into ice cream and a walk. Or fix a nice picnic basket and take her out for a picnic. If there's a local skating rink or something else that you think you'd both like to do, that's also a good idea. Just make sure neither one of you will have a bunch of friends there, because that can be distracting. Bring her some flowers and give them to her at the beginning of your date. And compliment her by telling her that you think she's beautiful. And have fun :) Good luck!
2006-09-05 22:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sun, you are not in Love, you like her.. the way she looks, the way she talks, the way she walk... but you don't really know her...
a good way to propose to her (it make almost all girl heart to beat) is FLOWERs and sweet Card.... you can write down your name or just leave it anonymous for a couple of times.
Write her sweet soft words, but don't exaggerate or make her feel that you like her body, or stuff... always mention the inner beauty...
Best of Luck :)
2006-09-06 05:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by o.s. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
w-eelll...try to get connected to her thru tis friend of hers...tell her tat u lyk her friend...i.e ur crush.....she can let tat gurl noe...n if she has feeling fr u...she cn tell her friend....
i helped my frnds d same way...bieng the friend n it worked...best of luck !@!
2006-09-06 04:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be fast and tell her that you love her, before its too late....
best of luck.....
2006-09-06 04:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself how much you love her
2006-09-06 04:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her....
go 2 her thinking ....DO or DIE
but dont die if its not successful...
2006-09-06 04:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋