Ok, so I'm a slightly above average looking guy and I took out this AMAZINGLY attractive girl. She's more than that though, she's the entire package. She's everything Ive ever wantedin someone. We met online and then really hit it off on our first date, we share almost everything in common, it's absolutely fantastic. The date went great, from just going to the zoo to both the zoo and dinner. So anyways, the date was coming to an end and we hugged goodbye and I was like so you want this to happen again and she was like if you do. And I said most def, and that we should go to this concert on saturday and she was like that's awesome. She is in between jobs right now and as soon as she knows her schedule she said she will call(either Tuesday or Wednesday of this week).Well it's Tuesday night and she still hasn't called.Should I email her tonight and just be like hey I had a gerat time, we should do it again.Should I wait for her to call longer, if so how long?Dont want to scare her off..
2006-09-05 21:53:30 · 8 answers · asked by Don't stop! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She did say she would call, I just don't want to #@$% this up
2006-09-05 21:54:04 · update #1
Well, most importantly remember that you're not in control of what she does. In other words, relax. If she wants what you want, it will more than likely happen at some point. You're scared, you're nervous, and maybe she is too... And that's ok. Wait until Thursday and E-mail her then, if she hasn't called. If you don't here from her by Friday, then Call her to confirm Saturday. And that's it. Let her do the talking, and you'll find out the answer. Take things slow, there is no rush. Don't try and control the situation, just try and enjoy it. If for some reason she slowly goes away, that's ok. Don't spend a lot of time on people who don't feel the same way. But, if she does feel the same way, you'll probably know it. Either she'll call, or something else that makes it clear. Just take it one step at a time. Push the fantasies out of your head, and enjoy the reality as long as it lasts. Good luck
2006-09-05 22:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by Corandero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her till wed if your really worried. sounds like you both enjoyed eachother equally. i don't think there's anything wrong with an email to let her know. don't send a pushy asking one. just that. i wanted you to know i had a great time. it's been a long time since i met anyone like you who's on the same level. i can't wait to hear from you. like that. short and sweet. it's nice to know your thinking of us. i don't think she'll mind at all. leave the concert out of it though. good luck with this. it's nice to experience that feeling : o ) a little jealous
2006-09-05 21:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by liketoplay420 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would not be bad to email her to thank for the good time and just ask about future as going reference
2006-09-05 21:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kehgohar R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead an e-mail her 1 time, if you dont hear back from her well let it go, she just wasnt for you, keep your chin up, Good Luck! Kelle*
2006-09-05 21:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by kellylewis652000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said Tues or Wed....so leave it until Thurs morn and if she hasnt contacted you by then, ring her. Otherwise, you might seem a bit too anxious.
Don't rush it.
2006-09-05 21:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u2 started dating and u wanna ask her something i say use the phone...
2006-09-05 22:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by irena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call her for another 2-3 days
then just ask her how she was , see wat she says.
then ask her for next date after 3-days if its not fixed before
2006-09-05 21:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by soofi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋