I'm 22 yrs old male can i marry now? share your experience. any one whom you know married early and ended in divorce? whats the reason.?
2006-09-05 21:47:35 · 27 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Men should marry when they understand that women civilize them and they are humbled by that. If a man truly worships women, just not wants to get what he can from them, then he is mature enough to put their needs first and live up to his responsibility as a husband.
You are responsible for being part of someone else's life, that means you live for them, you protect them, you make them laugh, and you give them a safe place to cry. You plan for the future, WITH them, not for them. You understand the difference between a wife and a maid. You understand the difference between a wife and prostitute.
You pull your weight and when you need to, you pull hers as well. You can take care of yourself, but you allow her to do that for you. You don't give her cause to be hurt, to worry or to be angry.
You understand that women don't have to just accept your words as evidence of your love and devotion, you must prove it in your actions. You have a character worth respecting and defending if need be. You understand that you don't HAVE to put down the lid, but out of respect you will make sure it is down every single time.
Marriages fail because people lie to themselves and to each other. Marriages fail because people don't understand that the wedding lasts about 30 seconds and the rest of your life is darn hard work. Marriages fail because people aren't humbled by the very fact that they are loved. Marriages fail because we are too lazy to do the simple things that make a partner feel alive.
2006-09-06 02:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
22 to 28
2006-09-05 21:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such things as right age to get marry. The most important thing is that both of you must have the idea of settling down. Once both of you share the same thinking, it could be the right age for both of you to get marry. if either party is not ready, the chances is that the marriage will end up in divorced. So just talk to your partner and see how she react
2006-09-05 22:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not until you are at least 28 years of age. Because in the human brain there is this part that doesnt grow or function until you are that age. Women its different their part kicks in at the age of 25. Im for serious this is very true. Its the reason why teenagers and young twenty somethings think they are invisible and crazy like, but once they reach this age they are more mature and acceptable to reasoning, hard work, and trust. Which is needed in a marriage.
2006-09-06 09:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
26
2006-09-07 21:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Fen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about 26
2006-09-05 21:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Sexyluva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. First off your wife will control you, your social life, money & everything else. She will get rid of your friends (they don't like them for this or that reason.)
When you get divorced, she make it nearly impossible for you to see your kids. Even if you make child support payments, many women push the father out of their children's lives.
80% of divorces are initiated by women. Many men commit suicide going thru divorce.
My brother died & I almost died.
The media never talks about this...if you live,
you feel broke. Literally as the woman now has your money.
If you ever complain about your unfair treatment
in "Family" Court, other women will call you a "loser." If you have a cold heart & don't care about children, then by all means get married.
2006-09-05 23:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are more than old enough to get married, if you think its the right thing for you...
I know alot of people get married young, and it lasts, you need to be sure you have picked the right person, and that she thinks the same, marriage isnt as formal as it used to be, but you should still take it seriously, if your worried about divorce before you marry this should flare up in your head! this obvioulsy shows you dont think it will last? you need to talk to your partner about your concerns
2006-09-05 21:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THere is no proper age. The answer is you are ready to marry when you are ready to marry.
You need to be grown up enough to be able to ask and answer honestly many importnant questions you need to ask.
First and foremost - Are you able to make a lfelong commitment to this person.
Good luck with life and maybe marriage
2006-09-05 21:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jason T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I think around 28 -32 is the right age to marry. You will have a firm financial foundation to support urself and ur loved one. Financial support is a serious thing you need to consider ... as it always can lead to argument. If you love her, you won't want her to suffer with you, right? you want her to have a better life...which will make us proud of being a man.
2006-09-05 21:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by City hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋