Unusual names and another problem?

Question

I'm 22.I'm pregnant in 37th week with twins(2 girls).I'm not married and I have 3 other daughters(all of them have different fathers and I don't live with any of them) - Ranulia(5),Evlodina(3), Pavilet(2).I want all the girls to have unusual names.Now I think of names for the twins.I want names beginning with B and N,but they musc be unusual and shorter than 7 letters.And another thing - When I worked(between pregnancies) my parents took care fo the kids.When I deliver the twins and they become 1-year-old,I'll have to continue working.Ranulia will have to be at school but since there won't be nobody to take care of the babies and the young girls,she will have to stay at home to keep an eye on the others.So can I leave her at home until she is 9-10 years old(when the other girls will grow up) and then send her to school?Now my parents are unavailable to take care of the kids and we don't have a kindergarten nearby.

Answer 1

Here are some names - Bonilet,Brasen, Bavelen and Nikoria,Neckelen, Numesel.About the other problem - Ranulia will be 6 when you go back to work.She will have to be instructed what to do and how to keep an eye on the other children.Evlodina will be 4,not too young to listen to Ranulia.They can play together,just tell them what to do and what not to do.Pavilet will be 3,she will need to sleep afternoon and Ranulia will have to take care of it.Maybe they could sleep together.The twins will be 1,they will sleep most of the time,but Ranulia will have to change their dipers.It's easy actually.Feeding and all the stuff may be like a game.don't worry,no one will lose her childhood.Taking care of a baby may be like a game to play so don't worry.When Evlodina is 6(when Ranulia is 8) you may send Ranulia to school and leave Evlodina to look after the girls.Just be sure you leave at least one girl over 6 years old.

Answer 2

You need to talk with someone about some type of public assistance to help you in your situation. I am not an advocate of this, but someone in your situation cannot do this alone. I hope you know that if you leave all those children alone, the state can take them away from you and have you arrested for child neglect. Also the only way a child of school age can stay home is if they are being home-schooled in some way, this even includes children with disabilities. You need to find these kids fathers and take them all to court for child support. Even if they don't come around you, it is still required by law that they support their children in some way. If none of these "dads" signed the birth certificate, the court will require all of you to submit to a paternity test before issuing an order for child support, but if they signed it they will have to pay. Taking these "dead beats" to court needs to be your number one priority right now. The last thing I sincerely recommend you do is getting your fallopian tubes tied, snipped or whatever they can do to keep you from having anymore children, since you are quite fertile. Sorry ,but I don't have any suggestions for names.

Answer 3

you may not want to hear this but this is the harshness of it ok u have to be cruel to be kind . if u can't handle having children then for goodness sake stop having them there is such a thing as contraception ok . stop relying on your parents & take some responsibility they are your children get the fathers involved make them take some responsibility too . Alot of people have children to different fathers so i'm not gonna judge u on that who am i to judge ? But for good ness sake if you do'nt want your children to grow up with many problems emotionally look after those babies . As for getting your daughter to stay at home with the kids ask yourself this can u really do that to her? taking something as important as education from her really do you want her to follow your footsteps alot of children & no goals?
anyway depending where u live it is kind of illegal to leave children in charge of other little ones it's kind of called neglect anyway hope u come accept responsibility of your actions your children did'nt ask to come into the world. sorry it's harsh but someones gotta say it grow up as for the names well unusual names are nice my 4 have different names & nice for goodness sake give it more thought they are children not puppies geez !!!!

Answer 4

Adonis, Aison, Ajax, Amon, Anubis, Apollo, Arash, Conall, Gunnar (one in each of my own favorites), Orion, Odin, Raiden, Phoenix, Rykeir, Gagan, Ajay, Elan, Makani, Gavran , Tarin

Answer 5

Good grief, keep your legs together. You're not educated enough to have children. I hope CPS comes and takes your children if you leave a 5 year old to take care of 4 other children.

Answer 6

First off, you need to be sterilized. Secondly, it is against the law to leave a child at home by themselves at such a young age. If I knew who you were I would call Child Protective Services.

What do you think would happen if there was a fire and you wern't there?

Answer 7

Your daughter is too young to be responsible for herself, let alone to be in charge of 4 younger ones. You need to find a way to pay for a babysitter or get at least one of the fathers to take some responsibility. I refuse to even consider names for your children. You need to take that tiny bit of responsibility for yourself seeing as how you have no sense to do anything else for your children.

Answer 8

I'm with Rachel on this one because I can't believe that there is anyone who could not see what is wrong with keeping a child out of school. It's neglect, plain and simple.

Answer 9

It's people like you that make me despair of today's society. Words fail me and I am not going to stoop to saying what kind of picture you have painted of yourself.

I have no sympathy for you whatsoever. I am glad that you are finally finding out that sponging off your parents doesn't work! I don't suppose you paid them childcare rates, if you paid them anything!

Answer 10

Send your daughter to school. Don't make her stay at home. I know it is your business but think about their future. Your are so young for having so much kids. Didn't you think about this?
Well, good luck!